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I know I'm not crazy...but I'm waiting to be called to do my psych eval... I already see a counselor... Hopefully they don't deny me... I don't think they will, but it's scary...

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Well I know for a fact i am crazy!

And yes I've been in therapy for years ( I used to be super crazy)

They "passed" me... The best thing I can say is don't worry and be honest with yourself and them and all will work out.

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You will be fine! My psych evaluation was just talking to the psychological examiner for about 10 minutes and then taking the MMPI (500 questions--multiple choice). Just be honest--they can tell if you are lying.

They really aren't trying to keep anyone from having surgery, but just want to make sure you have the tools to cope with the changes. Hang in there!

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I know I'm not crazy...but I'm waiting to be called to do my psych eval... I already see a counselor... Hopefully they don't deny me... I don't think they will, but it's scary...

Well, I would say be honest and have faith in the universe (or God if you believe) that things will work out the way they're suppose too. You're already seeing a counselor, so you're working on your issues, and that's 90% of the struggle right there. Being aware of the risks mentally and emotionally and putting resources in place to deal with them. As much as we want to be healthy and thin, there is a risk that this surgery will leave us cross-addicted, depressed, or not able to cope, so the psych eval is a God-send, not a punishment.

Just know you'll be able to managed whatever they throw at you. Hugs.

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If they say you're crazy, tell them, "You're just jealous cause the voices only talk to me!"

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If they say you're crazy' date=' tell them, "You're just jealous cause the voices only talk to me!"[/quote']

Haha this made me giggle out loud in the waiting room!

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You will be fine! My psych evaluation was just talking to the psychological examiner for about 10 minutes and then taking the MMPI (500 questions--multiple choice). Just be honest--they can tell if you are lying.

They really aren't trying to keep anyone from having surgery' date=' but just want to make sure you have the tools to cope with the changes. Hang in there![/quote']

I have to come twice! Once today to take the test and once next week to talk...

That's a lot of questions!

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Well' date=' I would say be honest and have faith in the universe (or God if you believe) that things will work out the way they're suppose too. You're already seeing a counselor, so you're working on your issues, and that's 90% of the struggle right there. Being aware of the risks mentally and emotionally and putting resources in place to deal with them. As much as we want to be healthy and thin, there is a risk that this surgery will leave us cross-addicted, depressed, or not able to cope, so the psych eval is a God-send, not a punishment.

Just know you'll be able to managed whatever they throw at you. Hugs.[/quote']

Yes, I know it's just a precaution. I'm just ready to be healthy!

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I was scared of the same thing. I was on 4 different antidepressants and see a Phychiatrist once every 2-3 mths. They just want to know that you'll be able to handle all of the challenges that come with weight loss surgery. Mine only lasted about 60 mins and there was no test involved.

I'm happy to report that 4 yrs and almost 100 lbs later (I was banded 3 1/2 yrs ago, moving to revision soon cuz of a slip), I only take 1/2 dose of 1 antidepressant now. No more depression for me!

I agree. Don't lie on the test (if there is one). They can immediately tell.

Marci

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Thanks everyone for the support!

It took 2 1/2 hours to finish the 'test' it was 700 questions!

I'll see the examiner next week to discuss!

Ekkkk! All I've got left is the appointment with the examiner, barium swallow, and 1 last nutritionist appointment before sending off for approval!

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Just left my meeting with the doctor... She said I'm not crazy! :) yayy!

Only steps left are:

Final nutritionist appointment (2pm Friday)

Barium swallow (7:45am Friday)

Labs ( 8:15am Friday)

Then sending off to insurance!!! OMG I'm so excited! :))

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