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Warning TMI alert! OMG! I'm not sure if its because of the weight loss but tonight for the first time in over 2 years my husband came onto me! He initiated sex all on his own and he had no trouble getting "prepared". I'm literally in tears over the shock and excitement. He never initiates sex nor does he show any desire to be with me. Maybe it was the weight loss or maybe the new dress but he NOTICED me and actually liked it. I can't believe it. I'm still in shock. We had hot sweaty sex before I almost had a heart attack. Lmbo. I didn't want to freak him out and start crying.

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Lmao!!! I kept reading "came into me" instead of "came onto me"

I had to read it three times before I got it right!

Damn dyslexia!!

I was like wow yeah TMI!! :P

Anyway I'm happy for your new found intimacy with the husband, it's one if those many perks!

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Thats wonderful... you go girl!!!!!

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Lmbo. Laura you crack me up! Even though he's kind of a ****** and our marriage is rocky at best I'm thankful for this small victory. It feels good to be desired again.

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Lmbo. Laura you crack me up! Even though he's kind of a ****** and our marriage is rocky at best I'm thankful for this small victory. It feels good to be desired again.

It's gets even worse I let my husband read it to see how I made my mistake... And he thought you meant that he came on you :P

Yes we are sick puppies here!!

But on a serious note you seem like a beautiful girl (I've read some of your posts)

And I hope he gets his head on straight and realizes that no matter what weight you are!

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It's get even worse I let my husband read it to see how I made my mistake... And he thought you meant that he came on you :P

Yes we are sick puppies here!!

But on a serious note you seem like a beautiful girl (I've read some of your posts)

And I hope he gets his head on straight and realizes that no matter what weight you are!

( oh and sorry about letting my husband read but you know every man here will be reading it)

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Aww thanks Laura! You are too sweet I don't care if you showed him. No problem. I'm hoping this is the first of many more. And I'm sorry for the crazy post. I just couldn't hold it in. Lmbo.

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Hopefully this is a turning point and your husband 'lifts his game' in that department. You have a really nice profile pic, maybe he's just not into good looking women?? :P

In any case, if he doesn't starting playing the game I'm sure your area is on OTR's schedule ........

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What's OTR?

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Lmbo. Ok. Hmmm well thx for the offer.

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Interesting.

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That's great ;) I love u have courage to tell us that! I'm only 2 weeks out and when my hubby and I have sex it's quick yep right get off kind of thing, because of my weight!! But I can't wait to get really into it once I look amazing! I have a question tho since ur had surgery a while back.. What happens with the excess skin? I was 104 post op and in 2 weeks down to 92 and worried about my skin?

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