SML1997 308 Posted April 7, 2013 We need your understanding and forgiveness, and you need to give it or you will be lonely and frustrated looking for Mr. Perfect.....cause he's gay. Uh...Butterbean.... that was HILARIOUS..... It's very true...there are no Mr. Perfect..... Now with that said....sending you a video of him calling you a "Big Girl" is just not smart. I don't care how big you are....with all the wonderful qualities you possess....that's only adjective he could think of was Big..... How about beautiful, gorgeous, intelligent, wonderful, thoughtful, sexy...and the list goes on.....I mean..that's just my thought.... From your profile pic...they did have one thing right...you're really pretty...now having said that....I am sure you have no problems attracting the opposite sex and could probably do without this guy. Good luck to you =) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bmordan 16 Posted April 7, 2013 Does he know that you had the surgery? I've been speaking to a guy and he knows how I look because we met 5yrs ago and always kept in touch via FB and IG but now we speak everyday but I don't want to hang out until after my surgery which is this Monday the 8th..he doesn't know I'm having surgery tho. I want to hang out when I've lost a few pounds and feel better about myself. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kelly1334 52 Posted April 7, 2013 Does he know that you had the surgery? I've been speaking to a guy and he knows how I look because we met 5yrs ago and always kept in touch via FB and IG but now we speak everyday but I don't want to hang out until after my surgery which is this Monday the 8th..he doesn't know I'm having surgery tho. I want to hang out when I've lost a few pounds and feel better about myself. He knows be has surgery because its on my Facebook. but I'm not sure if he knows exactly what surgery. I did meet him pre surgery when I actually felt more confident, oddly enough. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kelly1334 52 Posted April 7, 2013 Thanks guy, I appreciate the feed back! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
josefina 8 Posted March 13, 2015 Well, how do you feel about the friend? His first response was, "the pretty one". Lol! Anyway, you should talk to the guy and see if he realizes what he did and if he sincerely is sorry. Go with the friend!! Hahah just kidding, cut the guy a break Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Oregondaisy 2,021 Posted March 16, 2015 Do you even like this guy? Do you hope you two will get together? If not, then just chalk it up as guys are stupid. I think big girl sounds better than fat girl, so he was trying to be polite. But I don't get the sense you even like him, so it shouldn't really matter. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bellabloom 2,467 Posted January 18, 2016 "That big girl" could be a compliment in his eyes. Lots of men prefer larger women. LOTS of them. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites