Relationship problems or doubts?

[Vsgmommy19 3]

Has weightloss affected your relationship? Good or bad?

[mark! 449]

Good here. My wife and I both committed to changing our habits and lifestyles for the better. Now we spend so much more time together doing quality things outdoors and our relationship is on a much better platform before.

[VSGKirk 855]

Good! My partner loves the fact that I have a libido again

[Sassygirl06 962]

Both. I have been married for 18.5 years...with my husband for 21 years total. Before we had children I was extremely thin...and he was very jealous. Once I got heavier he was no longer jealous. Now that I have lost the weight he is more jealous again. I kind of like it because he is doing more for me...like being more romantic, and helping a lot more around the house.

As for the really good part, he looks at me with those eyes again....the ones that tells me he is really attracted to me again. Our sex life has never been better, even then when we were teenagers. We also do a lot more activities together outdoors which I really missed.

This surgery can be really hard on couples....but I would do it again and again and again...because I know that we are in it for the long hall. Communication is key! Good luck!

[NewAshes 232]

Good! My partner loves the fact that I have a libido again

does it really help with that?

[bwatts13 102]

Bad here split up 3 months after surgery and its not uncommon at all did a search online and the % of divorces are through the roof.

[sneed818 82]

Mines perfect but I can say others are not so lucky. My husband and I had many many many long talks about what I need and what he needs. We talked about other guys paying more attention to me and the jealousy aspect. You really have to be open and talk about the hard stuff and some stuff that may seem silly. I wish you the very best.

[MrsG 329]

Mines perfect but I can say others are not so lucky. My husband and I had many many many long talks about what I need and what he needs. We talked about other guys paying more attention to me and the jealousy aspect. You really have to be open and talk about the hard stuff and some stuff that may seem silly. I wish you the very best.

I agree! Mine is awesome but I think a lot of the reason is because we communicate all the time. I talk to him and include him in everything. I didn't think it was possible to love him more but since my surgery, they way he supports me 1000% and encourages me, well I am truly blessed and love him more than anything!