female only Met someone before surgery

[audreae 7]

My surgery is April 10th and I have met someone he asked me to Celebrate his birthday on April 13th. He is also a nurse like me. I hadn't planned to share my special event with him until I knew he was someone I wanted to share that with. I want to stay honest but not sure if I want to share this with him at this time. Any advice?

[makemyownluck 785]

Honesty is best, and also hardest. Better to be honest now than trying to maintain some lie. If he's a quality human being, he'll be supportive. If he's not, then you don't need him around anyway, right?

[NewAshes 232]

If you like him it's best to be honest and tell him before hand. If he doesn't support you then he isn't right for you.

[audreae 7]

Thank you ladies. I have a channel on YouTube and I talk about this journey I decided to have him look at my video blog. He took it better then I could imagine. He said he knows the psychological effect this surgery could have on a person and he would be there to support me through it. Very sweet man.

[NewAshes 232]

Great news! Even though my bf and I have been together for 2 years it took him a bit of talking to be ok with the whole thing...I still think he doesn't understand how big of a change it will be..he doesn't care that he's fat so I'm hoping he will still help and respect my life style change