selbradey 321 Posted March 25, 2013 Well, today my kids came back from their visitation with their dad. Heres some background info, i was 21 and stupid (sounds like a taylor swift song) and fell in love with my self centered narcissistic ex husband. He verbally and physically abused me about my weight (i was 145 lbs during my marriage, my weight at surgery was 212, gained from depression after divorce, plus binge eating disorder) Anyway, today he gets outta his car, looks me up and down and says, wow you look amazing. i said, hey arent you married. He said yeah so what, i can have you if i want you. Lesson number 1: tigers never change their stripes. Lesson number 2: I am still 13 lbs above the weight i was when i was married, so he never appreciated me for who i was. My response: "Well you cant have me, I am not a homewrecker like your wife is" Best.NSV.Ever 14 apricotsmommy, onelessfatgirl, SeriouslyChange and 11 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SLEEVEDNBEAUTIFUL 42 Posted March 25, 2013 Wow n good for you. GRATEFUL N THANKFUL 1 selbradey reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
zoekids 120 Posted March 25, 2013 Awesome 1 selbradey reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TerryBelieves 352 Posted March 25, 2013 YGG! 1 selbradey reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HypnotizingHazel 39 Posted March 25, 2013 Love it!!!!!! 1 selbradey reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BigFatLoser 331 Posted March 25, 2013 Lol! You're awesome. I dated a narcissist once. They're the WORST. You're lucky you're out of that mess! God for you! 1 selbradey reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sleevedintx 39 Posted March 25, 2013 Awesome! My ex's new girl told my ex in front of my daughter that she looks fatter than me now. That made my day! 3 selbradey, TerryBelieves and ad2422 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
selbradey 321 Posted March 25, 2013 Lol! You're awesome.I dated a narcissist once. They're the WORST. You're lucky you're out of that mess! God for you! This guy literally left me and his kids three states from home without a car, went to our house, got every financial paper out, told me i had half an hour to get my **** and go to my moms, and left the country with the woman he was cheating on me with. i filed for divorce a week later and beat him in court. who gets four years of alimony for only 3.5 years of marriage? this girl. and now because im so much hotter and more confident he wants me but cant have me! lol. and im happy and better off single Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HypnotizingHazel 39 Posted March 25, 2013 Ex's reaction....... One of the best rewards we have waiting after weight loss because they are the LAST ones that would have something nice to say! 1 selbradey reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BigFatLoser 331 Posted March 25, 2013 This guy literally left me and his kids three states from home without a car' date=' went to our house, got every financial paper out, told me i had half an hour to get my **** and go to my moms, and left the country with the woman he was cheating on me with. i filed for divorce a week later and beat him in court. who gets four years of alimony for only 3.5 years of marriage? this girl. and now because im so much hotter and more confident he wants me but cant have me! lol. and im happy and better off single[/quote'] Holy crap!!! What a guy, huh?! Love the alimony victory. Go, you. Woo! 1 selbradey reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
selbradey 321 Posted March 25, 2013 I honestly feel sorry for his current wife, she has no idea how its gonna end but i do and its ashamw Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Readytobeskinny 13 Posted March 25, 2013 High five ???? 1 selbradey reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nicolanz 1,484 Posted March 25, 2013 What a great feeling!!! So glad you're out of that mess! 1 selbradey reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
simplejaxgirl 135 Posted March 25, 2013 Best nsv! Good for you for getting out even if it wasn't the best way. Sent from my iPhone using VST 1 selbradey reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
selbradey 321 Posted March 25, 2013 Best nsv! Good for you for getting out even if it wasn't the best way. Sent from my iPhone using VST i thank god every single day im only 28, almost done school and me and my babies are safe from that psycho. Ty everyone for being supportive :") Share this post Link to post Share on other sites