Didn't do it

[Becka 0]

Hello,

I decided not to do my surgery tomorrow. I guess I'm not 100% ready. I started feeling like a failed myself & didn't give weight loss my all. I am going to diet & hire a personal trainer. I have more than 100 lbs to lose, I am going to give myself 1 year,hopefully I will reach my goal.

Thanks for all your support,this forum is the best.

[Kat817 19]

Good Luck to you! Hope it all works out for you!

Kat

[bosteph 2]

Good luck in your efforts. If needed, you know this option still exists.

Happy Holidays

[juliegeraci 7]

Becka,

Good luck to you. I tried that and failed so I hope you have better luck. Its all good if you exercise by the band sure helps. Best of luck.

[ReneBean 3]

Becka -

if you weren't sure - then you probably made the right choice. The band will be availalbe later on if you change your mind.

Hugs and good luck with the D&E plan.

[Becka 0]

Thanks for all of your kind words. I will keep you posted on how I am doing.

[faybie 0]

I agree with ReneBean, if you weren't sure then you weren't ready. You wouldn't want to be regretting the surgery. I think you made the right choice for yourself and you can always change your mind. The other way around would be more difficult.

[~Jules~ 0]

When you are ready, you will know.

Now just isn't the right time. Good luck to you and take care.

[HarleyNana 10]

I agree with Jules, when you're ready, you will know it. With me, there was never a doubt.

[Jachut 487]

You just cant do this sort of thing until you're 100% ready, so you've made a sensible decision. I made 3 surgeon's appointments and cancelled them all before I felt ready to do it too. I gave it one last ditch effort and I did OK but couldnt sustain the momentum so for me banding was the right path to take.

But you have to really KNOW that, so very best of luck with it all and this is still a great place to be for support.