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I'm 7 days out and my husband has had a bit of an attitude. I understand I guess the hospital stay,family over Helping,everything all at once can be overwhelming especially the guilt he has eating my favorites in front off me! But what really gets me is he says things like this is something YOU wanted and you knew there was sacrifices while he guzzles down a double double with cheese! Maybe it just me or I'm jealous he can eat that and not gain a pound...but I'm really just trying to not make everyone suffer lol a house with 3 boys dinner still needed to be made and that's my job lol

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I'm 7 days out and my husband has had a bit of an attitude. I understand I guess the hospital stay,family over Helping,everything all at once can be overwhelming especially the guilt he has eating my favorites in front off me! But what really gets me is he says things like this is something YOU wanted and you knew there was sacrifices while he guzzles down a double double with cheese! Maybe it just me or I'm jealous he can eat that and not gain a pound...but I'm really just trying to not make everyone suffer lol a house with 3 boys dinner still needed to be made and that's my job lol

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I pre-warned my boyfriend, sister and mother. lol I was like "Beware of my mood after surgery... i will either be bitchy or crying all the time.. please just go with the flow." I told my bf i will repay him with amazing sex lol, i promised my sister that i wont wear her clothes once i reach her size and when i start shopping she can have some freebies and mom gets a free vacation lol. We have to remember that our main supporters are going through this as well. We can not be selfish.

Getting sleeved in 9 days!!!! YA!!!!!!!! :rolleyes:

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