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Is anyone experiencing serious hate since weight loss.... I am 100pds down an the women at my work r horrible. ... it didn't bother me till 2dsy started off with talking behind my back an ppl I was cool with just quit talkin 2 me... mind u i still wear baggy cloths haven upgraded yet an don't plan to till I'm done... but today my kids notices someone wrote "hore" missing the w on my car at work. .... I would have still ignored but write on my car 4 my kids 2 see.... really.... alot of men make fuss over me that I gods witness pay no attention 2 I'm happy married but these ignorant b*****s hating on me bad.... they see me every lunch hour working out outside so I get talked about alot... like women are caddy as.. hell an I don't even do this 4 attention I just enjoy being able 2 cross my legs an they stay.... I wanna be healthy an they can't stand it???

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Is anyone experiencing serious hate since weight loss.... I am 100pds down an the women at my work r horrible. ... it didn't bother me till 2dsy started off with talking behind my back an ppl I was cool with just quit talkin 2 me... mind u i still wear baggy cloths haven upgraded yet an don't plan to till I'm done... but today my kids notices someone wrote "hore" missing the w on my car at work. .... I would have still ignored but write on my car 4 my kids 2 see.... really.... alot of men make fuss over me that I gods witness pay no attention 2 I'm happy married but these ignorant b*****s hating on me bad.... they see me every lunch hour working out outside so I get talked about alot... like women are caddy as.. hell an I don't even do this 4 attention I just enjoy being able 2 cross my legs an they stay.... I wanna be healthy an they can't stand it???

I feel for you. Just ignore it and hold your head high. They are jealous.

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Tks @@bellabloom I know it's jealousy but it kills me I don't even dress sleezy... or wear make up at work 2 warrant such high school behavior I work for the government for Petes sake when do we grow up .... I've never ever flirted with a soul I work with on my mom's grave like wow hate me 4 being healthy? So curious if I'm dealing alone??

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Tks @@bellabloom I know it's jealousy but it kills me I don't even dress sleezy... or wear make up at work 2 warrant such high school behavior I work for the government for Petes sake when do we grow up .... I've never ever flirted with a soul I work with on my mom's grave like wow hate me 4 being healthy? So curious if I'm dealing alone??

Your not alone. My best friend had surgery and a bunch of her friends dropped her. It happens. People are petty.

Be happy for the hard work your doing. Only people who have had this surgery understand how hard it is and how much work it entails. Short term and long term. Ignore it and after awhile it will pass. Just stay professional and don't share too much personal information. Keep your chin up and surround yourself with supportive people

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Is anyone experiencing serious hate since weight loss.... I am 100pds down an the women at my work r horrible. ... it didn't bother me till 2dsy started off with talking behind my back an ppl I was cool with just quit talkin 2 me... mind u i still wear baggy cloths haven upgraded yet an don't plan to till I'm done... but today my kids notices someone wrote "hore" missing the w on my car at work. .... I would have still ignored but write on my car 4 my kids 2 see.... really.... alot of men make fuss over me that I gods witness pay no attention 2 I'm happy married but these ignorant b*****s hating on me bad.... they see me every lunch hour working out outside so I get talked about alot... like women are caddy as.. hell an I don't even do this 4 attention I just enjoy being able 2 cross my legs an they stay.... I wanna be healthy an they can't stand it???

So sorry this is happening to you! Unfortunately, it is hard esp for women sometimes to be happy for someone else. This is so much more about them and their insecurities than it is about you. I have never understood this! Even at my heaviest of 350+ pounds, I was still confident in myself to acknowledge beautiful women. Jealousy is ugly! Luckily I own my own business and have not had any issues since dropping the weight. I agree with the other posters, you have to just ignore it. If you let it beat you down or allow it to cause a reaction, they got what they wanted out of you. Its like we tell our kids, have to ignore ignorant people. This journey is by no means easy! So you deserve to be happy! Don't let these immature women still your joy. They are not your Maker and their judgments mean nothing. Keep doing you girl!

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Thanks guys

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Sleeved 5/5/15

attachicon.gif ImageUploadedByBariatricPal1439932168.894148.jpg

sw 276 pre op diet weight

currently 192 5'9 down 84 pounds and couldn't be happier

Holy cow! 84 pounds in 3 months!!!! That's amazing!

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Sleeved 5/5/15

attachicon.gif ImageUploadedByBariatricPal1439932168.894148.jpg

sw 276 pre op diet weight

currently 192 5'9 down 84 pounds and couldn't be happier

Holy cow! 84 pounds in 3 months!!!! That's amazing!

Omg how?????? That's amazing what?

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My doctor says the same thing .. Very happy with my results ????

May I ask what you eat? Month 1-3 like what's your normal day like?

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I drink Water when I get up then either a slice of bacon or a belvita biscuit then I have a Protein Shake then for lunch I eat usually tuna with light mayo. then around 2 I have a snack usually peanuts or fruit of some sort. Around 6 before dinner I have more Protein usually a little of a shake for example. Then dinner I have grilled chicken or shrimp. I usually eat dinner at 730 and I finish off with a sugar free Popsicle around 9pm.. That is what I am at now month 1 and 2 were mostly just Protein Shakes and tuna.. Oh and I drink 4oz of apple juice a day.. Helps with my horrible acid reflux.. I also ride my bike 1 hour 3 times a week and have a boflex to work out on.. Everyone is different and this seems to be working for me. ????

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Sleeved 5/5/15

attachicon.gif ImageUploadedByBariatricPal1439932168.894148.jpg

sw 276 pre op diet weight

currently 192 5'9 down 84 pounds and couldn't be happier

Damn woman!! YOU ARE KILLING IT!

????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????

You look amazing!! Don't let stalls get ya down cause they will come!! Just keep doing what your doing!

Don't you feel incredible!?!?

It's the freakin best feeling...

To move and start to feel FIT!!

So happy for you!! ????????????????????????

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