NancyDec20 212 Posted February 22, 2013 wow you look amazing.. NOW thats what Im talking about.. great job.. I cant wait til I look that good. Im down also 53 lbs since dec20th.. and things are great.. way to go.. very beautiful. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
eazye 151 Posted February 22, 2013 Congrats, you look great! And in such a short time, way to go! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TerryBelieves 352 Posted February 22, 2013 congrats!!! You do look awesome! I am almost 4 wks post op. this past week I have been up and down on the scales. I need to learn not to get on the scale except on mondays and call it good. Monday I get to start soft foods and can't wait. I cant wait to share my before and after story. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ProudGrammy 8,322 Posted February 22, 2013 so close to goal that I can taste it. barbi1281 hey hey hey girlfriend hot tamale lookin' terrific!!!!! "expect the worse, hope for the best" you thought it would take a longer time period to lose the majority of your weight but you were pleasantly surprised by loosing quicker for allll, see what can happen if you are not "expecting" to loose the weight overnight... good for you keep up the great work congrats Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
barbi1281 112 Posted February 22, 2013 congrats!!! You do look awesome! I am almost 4 wks post op. this past week I have been up and down on the scales. I need to learn not to get on the scale except on mondays and call it good. Monday I get to start soft foods and can't wait. I cant wait to share my before and after story. Don't worry about the initial ups and downs... I was like that too and I was devastated! I was sure that I'd had most of my stomach removed to just fail AGAIN and I was never going to lose weight! I hit my first stall 2 or 3 weeks in and it lasted 2 weeks with a gain! During that time I started just paying attention to clothes and how they fit and how I felt. Now I do weigh every day but it's more to keep myself accountable and to look at patterns. I only actually record my weight once a week though and even if I weigh less the day before weigh-in, I don't count it... I always count it the same day/same relative time to keep me honest. You will get there! I will be perfectly honest with you and everyone else though - even though I may take some heat ... My biggest secret was to not deprive myself. What I mean by this is I never said I can't have something... I said I can only have a tiny amount. Since I was approved for solid foods, I've eaten chocolate but no more than a kiss or a miniature a day. This for me took at lot of stress off of the worrying about what happens when I hit goal and I want to be "normal" again. Good luck!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
barbi1281 112 Posted February 22, 2013 barbi1281 hey hey hey girlfriend hot tamale lookin' terrific!!!!! "expect the worse, hope for the best" you thought it would take a longer time period to lose the majority of your weight but you were pleasantly surprised by loosing quicker for allll, see what can happen if you are not "expecting" to loose the weight overnight... good for you keep up the great work congrats You are 200% right! I went into all of this eyes wide open prepared for the worst and hoping! When I had surgery, I informed my family of all of the possible complications and we planned for them but hoped I'd be fortunate. Post-op, I counted my 45 days until I was in the safety zone but we planned for that time as well because we knew anything could happen! Only thing I didn't expect was my daughter knocking on my door in the morning to borrow my clothes . Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
schavez2010 32 Posted February 22, 2013 You look amazing!! Keep it up:) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Talee4life 36 Posted February 22, 2013 Dag gone! You look amazing. Thanks for encouragement. I am 1-month post op, 27 pounds down, however I do not notice a difference - so, it can get a little frustating. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
2BonederfulAgain 17 Posted February 22, 2013 Dag gone! You look amazing. Thanks for encouragement. I am 1-month post op, 27 pounds down, however I do not notice a difference - so, it can get a little frustating. ' Honey--according to my first month scale numbers i lost 32. I didnt see any difference except in my face--i was sad. I have a crazy before and a 4 mth after photo and whoa...we will never see it in the mirror, its mental, but photos--they do it for me! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
joatsaint 2,814 Posted February 22, 2013 Thanks! I lost some but nothing that Vicki can't fix . Funny thing is when you're thinner you need less up there anyway. I am just the opposite, I'm looking forward to losing my man boobs! Congrats, you are looking sooooo hot! You deserve 2 snaps up in a Z formation - with sparkles! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Talee4life 36 Posted February 22, 2013 ' Honey--according to my first month scale numbers i lost 32. I didnt see any difference except in my face--i was sad. I have a crazy before and a 4 mth after photo and whoa...we will never see it in the mirror' date=' its mental, but photos--they do it for me![/quote'] Thanks, I needed to hear that! I am so, not a picture person. I do not like to take them, however, maybe I should. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
krissj 39 Posted February 22, 2013 Your advice and transformation is marvelous Barbi. I am still pre-op with surgury in 12 days. I am so excited, it is all I can think about. REading what you and others have said here is helping me a lot. Trying to get through the liquid phase. Not easy, but I am working it. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
2BonederfulAgain 17 Posted February 22, 2013 Thanks, I needed to hear that! I am so, not a picture person. I do not like to take them, however, maybe I should. U need to take them for yourself---i also wrote all over my bedroom mirror in eyeliner---dates and measurements. That helped during my mega stall Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tmyers 15 Posted March 1, 2013 i need to get to vickis! LOL...im 9 months out. Started at 232 at day of surgery. I am now 153. which is the surgeons projection for my one year mark. I dont have any curves (i have a fake it til u make it body for special days hahahah) so the goal is 125. not too far away!! BTW i had a 3 month stall when i lost 60 lbs at 4 months out...started losing again in November. I'm dealing with a almost 2 month stall right now! What did you do to get out of it? It's sooo aggravating! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Success2013 186 Posted March 1, 2013 i need to get to vickis! LOL...im 9 months out. Started at 232 at day of surgery. I am now 153. which is the surgeons projection for my one year mark. I dont have any curves (i have a fake it til u make it body for special days hahahah) so the goal is 125. not too far away!! BTW i had a 3 month stall when i lost 60 lbs at 4 months out...started losing again in November. Did you go 3 months with no weight loss? how did you get it going again? I started at 232 also, I finally hit -20 this morning (212) and I'm about 5 1/2 weeks post op. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites