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I just had a break down ..it's so hard some days ..my husband feels helpless but I educated him from the beginning so he would kno what to expect and I told to never let me give up no matter if I say I regret it cause I kno things will get better

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And you obviously educated yourself too, to know this is normal.

I know it doesn't make much easier when your going through it though... Hang in there and be good to yourself :)

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I hope you feel better soon OP!

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There are really good days and then really bad days. This is such a journey that we are all on and there's times I really want to eat and then I feel I'll. then I have guilt because I've been grazing Through out the day. :(

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This toonshall pass! Stay strong!

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I just broke down a few days ago myself, stay strong and when you make it through this you will look back and grow from this!!

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And you obviously educated yourself too' date=' to know this is normal.

I know it doesn't make much easier when your going through it though... Hang in there and be good to yourself :)[/quote']

Thank you so much I needed that you no all that info we take in it could never prepare u for the emotional side of things and I'm great ful that I have you all to support me as well as my family

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What's going on? Why is this so hard for you? Is it the food?

It's not just food it's your life that's changing in every way and its a good thing but very emotional did you not go through emotion on your journey ?

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I just broke down a few days ago myself' date=' stay strong and when you make it through this you will look back and grow from this!![/quote']

It feels good not be alone just when you feeling better u have a day of emotion it really is a day by day journey

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It's not just food it's your life that's changing in every way and its a good thing but very emotional did you not go through emotion on your journey ?

No, I didn't, I guess I'm just in a different place in my life than others.

Just remember this too shall pass for you, try to find something that will occupy your time. Start a new hobby to take the focus off of this for a while, sometimes that helps.

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No' date=' I didn't, I guess I'm just in a different place in my life than others.

Just remember this too shall pass for you, try to find something that will occupy your time. Start a new hobby to take the focus off of this for a while, sometimes that helps.[/quote']

I'm 18 days out and lucky for you to bad we can't all be on the same page !

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The first few weeks are hard, as you try to figure it all out. It gets better.

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