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I feel guilty because I went to Dressbarn today with the intent to buy one shirt with my gift card from Christmas. Well, I walked out with a few more. I found 3 on the sale rack and the other 3 I paid full price for. They are all smaller sizes and I felt terrific trying them on. I'm sad to know they'll be too big in a few months and that I spent that money.

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You deserve to have a few new things through every stage of weight loss! I am not going to wear my old clothes that look ridiculously big just because I haven't finished!! :)

You can donate them afterwards or I've had friends that have asked for things when I'm done!

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I've been giving things away, but I just feel guilty about spending the money. I do know my confidence is up when I have on nice clothes that compliment me and my shrinking size. That feeling is amazing!

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Go somewhere like Plato's Closet...they buy your clothes.

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I feel the same way , I have lost 42 lbs went from a size 20 and 2 x , to a misses 18 and XL top ... so every time I go to the store i am happy to buy new things,,, but i have limited myself for the same reason ... I hate to spend so much when i dont know how long i will be able to wear it .... the thing that i have started to do , is to go to the thrift shops and if I find bottoms , I will buy some new tops or vise versa so that i can put together some outfits.

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