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Hi everyone! I was hoping to be sleeved in March over spring break, but I made the hard decision to push it back til May until after finals are done. Now I have more time to prepare both mentally and physically so that I can make the surgery a life long change. I think I'm happy with my decision even though it was bittersweet.

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I am penciled in for May 13th I can't wait! My job ish exotic and waiting for my co- worker to come back from maternity leave!

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Congratulations on the date!

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Hello you May babies! You are near and dear to my heart because I'm a May Sleever too. This May it will be 2 years. I will be celebrating one year at goal weight this March. I love my sleeve and will be thinking of each of you in May as you begin your post-op journey to goal.

Lynda

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Linda! So great to know you are doing amazing! I am scared now tha I am approved. I have never been restricted for life on portion sizes and trying to figure out how I have to deal with people's negative comments at my job since I have to tell at least a few people since they see me eat and will notice a difference and my family. I am hoping I am making the right decision bc I think I am out of options and desperately want a change. Do you have a before and after picture to share with us?

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Linda! So great to know you are doing amazing! I am scared now tha I am approved. I have never been restricted for life on portion sizes and trying to figure out how I have to deal with people's negative comments at my job since I have to tell at least a few people since they see me eat and will notice a difference and my family. I am hoping I am making the right decision bc I think I am out of options and desperately want a change. Do you have a before and after picture to share with us?

I do have a gallery. It's been awhile since I added to it, but I'm about the same size. I still haven't added a goal weight pic. In my last picture I am less than 5 lb.s from goal though. You can click my pic to see my profile and then click the Gallery link to see the pics. This link may work: http://www.verticalsleevetalk.com/user/5461-lsereno/

As for negative nells, I deal with them based on how I feel about them:

  • Really love them: I spend time working with them to help them understand why this is the best option for me.
  • Like them: I spend a little time explaining why this is the best option for me. If they harp after that, I shut them down with "My Dr. and I have decided this is the best option for me:.
  • Don't like them: go straight to the "My Dr. and I.." comment.

As far as Portion Control, I can now eat a small meal. That's what naturally skinny people do. I don't feel deprived. It does take a while, but that is part of the healing process.

Lynda

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Yay May sleevers woohoo :)

Best wishes!!!

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Yeah, that's really great advice, Lynda. Thank you! Also, you look absolutely fantastic there with Mr. Wax Clooney. I thought it was a picture of you getting engaged and got a pretty good laugh when I expanded it and saw who it was you were standing next to. :D

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Yeah, that's really great advice, Lynda. Thank you! Also, you look absolutely fantastic there with Mr. Wax Clooney. I thought it was a picture of you getting engaged and got a pretty good laugh when I expanded it and saw who it was you were standing next to. :D

Yeah! Madame Tussards at Las Vegas. So proud to be skinnier than Clooney :-)

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Hello you May babies! You are near and dear to my heart because I'm a May Sleever too. This May it will be 2 years. I will be celebrating one year at goal weight this March. I love my sleeve and will be thinking of each of you in May as you begin your post-op journey to goal.

Lynda

Wow congrats! May 20th is my day!! Hope ill be here in 2 years with much the same message and support for others! Thanx :)

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