male only Non-supportive wives?

[gmanbat 5,889]

I read many, many threads about women who are sleeving and have to deal with jerk, non-supportive, insecure, namby-pamby, crybaby husbands.

I am just curious.......... any of you men have non-supportive wives?

[No game 14,437]

There was a thread about that very topic a couple of days ago..

I will try to remember the name and let you know.

Oops mans room. . . Quietly walking away now

[gmanbat 5,889]

There was a thread about that very topic a couple of days ago..

I will try to remember the name and let you know.

Oops mans room. . . Quietly walking away now

I'll write you a special permission slip...To all men whom it may concern, Laura.........and signed Gman.....there ya go.

Ya, if I'm being redundant I'd like to know.

[massindex 346]

Not here. My wife was 110% supportive.

[No game 14,437]

Thanks!!

It was called "wife isn't supportive" how much info there I don't know...

[massindex 346]

Thanks!!

It was called "wife isn't supportive" how much info there I don't know...

You never know. We are equally supportive of the LBGT community here. It's all about WLS...

[gmanbat 5,889]

Thanks!!

It was called "wife isn't supportive" how much info there I don't know...

I found and read the thread that our honorary guest, Laura, referred to. It is :http://www.verticals...9;t supportive

It is an excellent thread on the subject. After reading that thread I almost wished I had posed this question in the general area. The women gave such insightful answers. Hey guys, OK if we throw this open to the ladies?

[massindex 346]

I found and read the thread that our honorary guest, Laura, referred to. It is :http://www.verticals...9;t supportive

It is an excellent thread on the subject. After reading that thread I almost wished I had posed this question in the general area. The women gave such insightful answers. Hey guys, OK if we throw this open to the ladies?

Of course!

[johnlatte 1,232]

That might have been the thread I started a while back. My wife was being a real beech about it in a very passive aggressive way. When I was work hard to get the pre-op weight down, she would actually sit down in front of me (away from our dining room) and eat. She had had RNY about 7 years ago and had put back on almost all of her weight. So I think that had a lot to do with it. Generally she's kinda supportive. She cooks more for our kids than anything, but I have no problem making my own food and I think that pisses her off to a degree. If she makes something that I can't or don't want, I just make my own. I haven't let it get to me, I've pretty much tuned her out. But now that I am 3 months out she seems to be getting on board more. In fact she's started working out and seeing a nutritionist, but that has more to do with her, not really me. So who knows......

[iggychic 1,405]

I read many' date=' many threads about women who are sleeving and have to deal with jerk, non-supportive, insecure, namby-pamby, crybaby husbands.

I am just curious.......... any of you men have non-supportive wives?[/quote']

Silly boy...this is not possible. Women are perfect

[Takingcontrol 467]

I agree with what was said on the other thread...maybe she's feeling insecure & afraid what might happen when your looking & feeling good! I know many years ago when I lost over 100 lbs & my husband started losing too..I became insecure & jealous! I would try & sabotage his weight loss by making his fav meals, etc. It was my problem...not his! Now we are both on this journey again....me sleeved & he trying on his own...but I feel totally different this time & we support each other. Maybe if you assure her how much you love her & talk about all the things you two will soon be able to do TOGETHER....she will get on board. Good luck on your journey!

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