Aussiegirl 580 Posted January 27, 2013 So before my sleeve and weight loss I wasnt dating, while I was single I didnt feel like it was something I deserved. So I lost the weight and most days I am comfortable in my skin. A few months ago, i decided to officially put myself on the market so to speak. Have been internet dating, meeting guys etc. I found some nice guys, but no spark, some real d*^ks and quite a few guys that didnt want to know me once I opened up about my weight loss. Anyway I recently I broke my ankle and have been pretty much limited to my apartment building and started running into this guy in my lift, anyway I was always with someone when I met him so I couldnt act too interested, but we always had a nice chat. Anyway I did something that I would never have done before the weight loss, I put a letter in all the letter box apartments on his floor (admittedly only 4) and asked him to contact me if he is interested in a coffee.. And to my shock..absolute disbelief, a couple of days later I got a message from him...he replied and asked me out to lunch...which sadly i was at work, but we kept in touch and today we are having lunch!! This is something that I would not have even contemplated pre-surgery. Whatever happens I went after what i was intereedted in for the first time... 6 ThikNjuCee, 2013newme, eclipse and 3 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Traci J. 207 Posted January 27, 2013 Congrats and I hope everything goes well with this one. It's hard to find a good one these days, so good luck. 1 Aussiegirl reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ThikNjuCee 65 Posted January 28, 2013 YOU ROCK!!!! 1 Aussiegirl reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Livinglifeout 217 Posted January 28, 2013 That is fantastic..my fingers are crossed for you:) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Threetimesacharm 1,400 Posted January 28, 2013 How brave of you! Life is about taking risks, if you don't take any you will never know "what could have been". Hope you have a great time on your date. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aussiegirl 580 Posted January 28, 2013 Thanks all We had a nice lunch and a nice chat. Not sure that anything will happen and he may be a bit too young tho I didnt notice until i asked his age. Now I just have to figure out whether I should chase or wait and see if he comes to me... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
zoekids 120 Posted January 28, 2013 Very cool 1 Aussiegirl reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
