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Why am i craving sex

Elyne

By Elyne, in The Gals' Room

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selbradey    321

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When i am remarried and sexually active i will also think before i reply to a thread like this with an unintelligent response...just sayin.

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Elyne    5

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Sel that's why I know that the world will encourage me to get some, but I know it's wrong. I too was was married and my ex cheated abd even got the woman pregnant . The got in a 6 year relationship and can't to find out he was flirting and meeting girls on fb. I just made a vow to God to remain pure until marriage .

I had to repent because I know that at those trying times it's nothing but temptation! I thank you so much,because its hard when you trying towall in purity and the world and advertising say GO.

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ebonisekim    1,713

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I was married too' date=' and sex was safe even if i got pregnant. My ex was also disease free. Im also semi religious. So yes sex is great but for those of us who are single, and for me, there are too many risks to casual sex. HIV, herpes, unwanted pregnancy....etc. so as much as i need and want it, the risks always keep me from doing so. I said in previous post i was on the verge but i know myself, i will chicken out.[/quote']

When I was single I always use protection I don't care if your my boy friend and the only one I'm seeing cause I might not be your only one .. But sex it apart of life with the rt tools and in moderation it's all good

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ebonisekim    1,713

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When i am remarried and sexually active i will also think before i reply to a thread like this with an unintelligent response...just sayin.

It's not that serious for me cause I been w the same man since I was 16 my high school sweet heart and I'm 29 so but any way you should choose your words wisely its not polite

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ebonisekim    1,713

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Sel that's why I know that the world will encourage me to get some' date=' but I know it's wrong. I too was was married and my ex cheated abd even got the woman pregnant . The got in a 6 year relationship and can't to find out he was flirting and meeting girls on fb. I just made a vow to God to remain pure until marriage .

I had to repent because I know that at those trying times it's nothing but temptation! I thank you so much,because its hard when you trying towall in purity and the world and advertising say GO.[/quote']

I think that's a great ideal but when you post here I thought maybe you was look for answers or help but you have your answers good luck to you

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Elyne    5

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Ebon yes that true because my doctor didn't warn me, he just kept stressing for me not to get pregnant . I have coped with it .

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joseph    40

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Lol epic thread.

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luvs2laff    3

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So craving more sex after surgery is normal. If you want it and want guarantee you stay clean, touch yourself and stock up on batteries. If you need to be touched back find a safe friend! LOL

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PEvette    297

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My doc warned me, but its different to be warned then to actually go through it....I haven't had sex in 2 years (a refuse to use the word celibate, hate it) I just have been focused on my research...

I'm 7 months post op, and 2 weeks ago its like I've been hit with the "horny bug" I want sex....problem, I'm single...but I want sex, so I dont like being single right now...

The only thing that has kept me sane right now are my toys....thank goodness for them....but I want a man! LOL

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doxieville    799

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My doc warned me' date=' but its different to be warned then to actually go through it....I haven't had sex in 2 years (a refuse to use the word celibate, hate it) I just have been focused on my research...

I'm 7 months post op, and 2 weeks ago its like I've been hit with the "horny bug" I want sex....problem, I'm single...but I want sex, so I dont like being single right now...

The only thing that has kept me sane right now are my toys....thank goodness for them....but I want a man! LOL[/quote']

Just an FYI: just bcs someone is married, it doesn't automatically mean they are getting it on....

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PEvette    297

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Just an FYI: just bcs someone is married, it doesn't automatically mean they are getting it on....

True, but atleast they have someone to get it on with...

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Ballermom    803

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Lol otr you are my favorite.

To the op....honey no toys?! You need to get yourself some' date=' lock the door, and don't leave the house for a few days while you get it out of your system!! If you can't take care of yourself, you can't expect someone else to know how to do what you like.[/quote']

LMAO! At OTR post

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Elyne    5

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You see that's my problem I don't use or masterbate. I don't want To do that at all.

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PEvette    297

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So what do you do to release stress??

You see that's my problem I don't use or masterbate. I don't want To do that at all.

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rybecca20    160

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FYI' date=' I'm STD free & had a vasectomy.

And I'm mobile.[/quote']

I love this comment!! Traveling through Ohio by any chance????? Lol

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