selbradey 321 Posted January 7, 2013 When i am remarried and sexually active i will also think before i reply to a thread like this with an unintelligent response...just sayin. 1 Elyne reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Elyne 5 Posted January 7, 2013 Sel that's why I know that the world will encourage me to get some, but I know it's wrong. I too was was married and my ex cheated abd even got the woman pregnant . The got in a 6 year relationship and can't to find out he was flirting and meeting girls on fb. I just made a vow to God to remain pure until marriage . I had to repent because I know that at those trying times it's nothing but temptation! I thank you so much,because its hard when you trying towall in purity and the world and advertising say GO. 1 selbradey reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ebonisekim 1,713 Posted January 8, 2013 I was married too' date=' and sex was safe even if i got pregnant. My ex was also disease free. Im also semi religious. So yes sex is great but for those of us who are single, and for me, there are too many risks to casual sex. HIV, herpes, unwanted pregnancy....etc. so as much as i need and want it, the risks always keep me from doing so. I said in previous post i was on the verge but i know myself, i will chicken out.[/quote'] When I was single I always use protection I don't care if your my boy friend and the only one I'm seeing cause I might not be your only one .. But sex it apart of life with the rt tools and in moderation it's all good 1 Elyne reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ebonisekim 1,713 Posted January 8, 2013 When i am remarried and sexually active i will also think before i reply to a thread like this with an unintelligent response...just sayin. It's not that serious for me cause I been w the same man since I was 16 my high school sweet heart and I'm 29 so but any way you should choose your words wisely its not polite Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ebonisekim 1,713 Posted January 8, 2013 Sel that's why I know that the world will encourage me to get some' date=' but I know it's wrong. I too was was married and my ex cheated abd even got the woman pregnant . The got in a 6 year relationship and can't to find out he was flirting and meeting girls on fb. I just made a vow to God to remain pure until marriage . I had to repent because I know that at those trying times it's nothing but temptation! I thank you so much,because its hard when you trying towall in purity and the world and advertising say GO.[/quote'] I think that's a great ideal but when you post here I thought maybe you was look for answers or help but you have your answers good luck to you 1 Elyne reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Elyne 5 Posted January 8, 2013 Ebon yes that true because my doctor didn't warn me, he just kept stressing for me not to get pregnant . I have coped with it . Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
joseph 40 Posted January 9, 2013 Lol epic thread. 1 abetterme4.2 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
luvs2laff 3 Posted January 9, 2013 So craving more sex after surgery is normal. If you want it and want guarantee you stay clean, touch yourself and stock up on batteries. If you need to be touched back find a safe friend! LOL Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PEvette 297 Posted January 10, 2013 My doc warned me, but its different to be warned then to actually go through it....I haven't had sex in 2 years (a refuse to use the word celibate, hate it) I just have been focused on my research... I'm 7 months post op, and 2 weeks ago its like I've been hit with the "horny bug" I want sex....problem, I'm single...but I want sex, so I dont like being single right now... The only thing that has kept me sane right now are my toys....thank goodness for them....but I want a man! LOL 2 ebonisekim and Elyne reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
doxieville 799 Posted January 10, 2013 My doc warned me' date=' but its different to be warned then to actually go through it....I haven't had sex in 2 years (a refuse to use the word celibate, hate it) I just have been focused on my research... I'm 7 months post op, and 2 weeks ago its like I've been hit with the "horny bug" I want sex....problem, I'm single...but I want sex, so I dont like being single right now... The only thing that has kept me sane right now are my toys....thank goodness for them....but I want a man! LOL[/quote'] Just an FYI: just bcs someone is married, it doesn't automatically mean they are getting it on.... 1 lizv123 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PEvette 297 Posted January 10, 2013 Just an FYI: just bcs someone is married, it doesn't automatically mean they are getting it on.... True, but atleast they have someone to get it on with... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ballermom 803 Posted January 10, 2013 Lol otr you are my favorite. To the op....honey no toys?! You need to get yourself some' date=' lock the door, and don't leave the house for a few days while you get it out of your system!! If you can't take care of yourself, you can't expect someone else to know how to do what you like.[/quote'] LMAO! At OTR post 1 PEvette reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Elyne 5 Posted January 10, 2013 You see that's my problem I don't use or masterbate. I don't want To do that at all. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PEvette 297 Posted January 10, 2013 So what do you do to release stress?? You see that's my problem I don't use or masterbate. I don't want To do that at all. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rybecca20 160 Posted January 10, 2013 FYI' date=' I'm STD free & had a vasectomy. And I'm mobile.[/quote'] I love this comment!! Traveling through Ohio by any chance????? Lol Share this post Link to post Share on other sites