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I have only been with my bf for 23 months. Before him I was alone for 12 years! I have a friend who pulled me out of my shell and got me on a dating website and it just went from there!

My bf is amazing! He is part of why I have confidence! He treats me like me and and has never told asked me to lose weight! We are both happy because as much as he liked holding in the past sometimes it was uncomfortable for him but now its getting better and the sex is too! My legs would cramp or we would try something and it didn't work so we got frustrated and then stuck in a rut! But we have worked through it and moved past it!

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This site has the most SENSITIVE people I have ever seen in my life! Or maybe its insecurity? I am not sure but OMG... Y'all talk about being offended about everything that you have internal issues with - making other people feel like they have to walk on eggshells. We are (or were) FAT.. Despite this one dreadful thing we all have in common' date=' we do not see things the same. Think about that before jumping down someone's throat.

I am fat, and I LOVE sex!! My sex life is wonderful.. The lady who wrote that envies ME and others like me who dont care about my fat jiggling everywhere... She was not insensitive. She is clearly saying that she was a bit insecure about her fat when she was bigger and didn't enjoy sex.. Don't like what she wrote? KIM (keep it moving.. its not that serious)

And thanks for envying me babes.. I hope you get that new found " hot sexy mama" confidence as you reach your weight loss goals.[/quote']

YOU ARE THE BEST!!!! What a great response and attitude you have- I would like this ten thousand times if I could!!!! Here's to hoping for more confidence and letting my inner goddess rock in 16 days (can't wait to get my sleeve)!!!

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Thats right...

Out with the fat - in with "all that"!!!

(yes, a little corny..)

We all have our insecurities - but as long as me being naked doesn't negatively affect his erection, its all good.

I cannot wait for my sleeve.. I am hoping for increased flexibility and even more confidence!!

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Thats right...

Out with the fat - in with "all that"!!!

(yes' date=' a little corny..)

We all have our insecurities - but as long as me being naked doesn't negatively affect his erection, its all good.

I cannot wait for my sleeve.. I am hoping for increased flexibility and even more confidence!![/quote']

You got that right girl!!! When are you getting sleeved? I am so wishing the best for you!!

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My bf and I were able to have sex standing up!

New position for us: He picked me up, pinned me against the wall rocked my world.

New position for us: He picked me up and bounced me up and down on his thighs.

Love this whole cave man thing with him picking me up and tossing me around. That wasn't going to happen when I was fat nomatter how comfortable I was with the extra padding.

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New position for us: He picked me up' date=' pinned me against the wall rocked my world.

New position for us: He picked me up and bounced me up and down on his thighs.

Love this whole cave man thing with him picking me up and tossing me around. That wasn't going to happen when I was fat nomatter how comfortable I was with the extra padding.[/quote']

That's awesome u must be close to goal weight

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My husband was 320 and is now 215...he did it without surgery. Sadly we have had sex in 60 weeks. He is "away" and we won't be getting physical for 1-5 years :(

Nursing school, my job and two kids keep my mind off sex

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New position for us: He picked me up' date=' pinned me against the wall rocked my world.

New position for us: He picked me up and bounced me up and down on his thighs.

Love this whole cave man thing with him picking me up and tossing me around. That wasn't going to happen when I was fat nomatter how comfortable I was with the extra padding.[/quote']

Omg that's exactly how we said we are going to do it!!!! Doggy style gets old lol

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My husband was 320 and is now 215...he did it without surgery. Sadly we have had sex in 60 weeks. He is "away" and we won't be getting physical for 1-5 years :(

Nursing school' date=' my job and two kids keep my mind off sex[/quote']

Stay strong girl!!! Keep doing what your doing. Success is always a good word!!

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You got that right girl!!! When are you getting sleeved? I am so wishing the best for you!!

2/16/13 ..

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New position for us: He picked me up, pinned me against the wall rocked my world.

New position for us: He picked me up and bounced me up and down on his thighs.

Love this whole cave man thing with him picking me up and tossing me around. That wasn't going to happen when I was fat nomatter how comfortable I was with the extra padding.

At my homegirl's bachelorette party, a stripper picked me up with ease and bounced me on his thighs.. I was sooo turned on at the fact that he did it with ease that I cannot wait for these positions as well! Good for yall!

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Had some issues about two years ago had an ablasion done instead of husterectomy. But now it's time :-(. 11 Pads today in about 4 hours. Uggh!!

Hey girl. I had PCOS horribly. I would bleed for months at a time. Had ablasion in 2009. All was good until June 2012. Horrible pain hit me. I had hysterectomy. Best thing I've ever done. If you have questions you can PM me.

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Hey girl. I had PCOS horribly. I would bleed for months at a time. Had ablasion in 2009. All was good until June 2012. Horrible pain hit me. I had hysterectomy. Best thing I've ever done. If you have questions you can PM me.

Thank u so much!! What kind of pain?

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Hey girl. I had PCOS horribly. I would bleed for months at a time. Had ablasion in 2009. All was good until June 2012. Horrible pain hit me. I had hysterectomy. Best thing I've ever done. If you have questions you can PM me.

I have that too. I would bleed for months at a time. I tried the Mirena(opposed to surgery)to see if that would help and it has. It has been 3 years that I have had it in (I do not use it all for contraception).

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New position for us: He picked me up' date=' pinned me against the wall rocked my world.

New position for us: He picked me up and bounced me up and down on his thighs.

Love this whole cave man thing with him picking me up and tossing me around. That wasn't going to happen when I was fat nomatter how comfortable I was with the extra padding.[/quote']

I told my fiancé that when I get sleeved, that this is my goal. That he can pick me up during sex. Now he's working on bulking up too. Lol!

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