rybecca20 160 Posted December 28, 2012 So now that you aren't "fat" anymore' date=' are u more confident sexually? I ask because sometimes it is all in our mind and not in our bodies.[/quote'] I am still fat....I said that in one of my earlier posts. 60 Pds from goal weight but as I stated earlier too I have menstrual issues really bad. Really haven't stopped bleeding since surgery so have to hysterectomy in February but I have had a couple encounters that where better. I was thin about 5 years ago and my sex drive did come back and I loved it.... Hoping that happens again! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rybecca20 160 Posted December 28, 2012 Rybecca' date=' I understand what you meant. Ignore the drama [/quote'] Thank u!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rybecca20 160 Posted December 28, 2012 We had sex yesterday it was amazing found a new position too! Wtg!!!! If there is a will there is a way!! U go girl!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Biellita165 28 Posted December 28, 2012 Really haven't stopped bleeding since surgery so have to hysterectomy in February but I have had a couple encounters that where better. I was thin about 5 years ago and my sex drive did come back and I loved it.... Hoping that happens again! I'm hoping my sex drive do come back too. Glad things were good when you were thin. For me is different, even when I was thin, I was extremely self conscious. :/ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Biellita165 28 Posted December 28, 2012 I also meant to say sorry about all the bleeding, do you know why it happened? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
a5paintball20 19 Posted December 28, 2012 I love new positions Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
a5paintball20 19 Posted December 28, 2012 If you dont mind me beening in here what are some new positions that people are trying Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rybecca20 160 Posted December 28, 2012 I also meant to say sorry about all the bleeding' date=' do you know why it happened?[/quote'] Had some issues about two years ago had an ablasion done instead of husterectomy. But now it's time :-(. 11 Pads today in about 4 hours. Uggh!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mizzzliza 113 Posted December 30, 2012 OMG.. Run girl! LOL.. Just messing! 12 inch Coke can? My ex was like that and at 324lbs' date=' it was VERY uncomfortable and I never enjoyed him. On top of that, latex irritates me and I guess because he was so big, it was even worse!! Good luck with that. Try some lubes if you haven't already.[/quote'] I have just the opposite problem. My hubby is not well endowed, and after having 5 children I'm definitely not a virgin, so sex is rather blah and positions are limited. I'm hoping weight loss will allow better access at the least. Kegels only do so much, but I keep them up anyway. I would much rather be dealing with a too big issue though! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
a5paintball20 19 Posted December 31, 2012 Its not always about size its about how he rocks your world 1 Biellita165 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jsunflower2001 29 Posted December 31, 2012 If you dont mind me beening in here what are some new positions that people are trying My bf and I were able to have sex standing up! 1 LeahMae reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
a5paintball20 19 Posted December 31, 2012 My bf and I were able to have sex standing up! Nice ive never tried that before congrats to you Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jsunflower2001 29 Posted December 31, 2012 Thank you;-) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Capricornrose 59 Posted December 31, 2012 I'm pre-op and I feel the same way. Been single since the golden years. LOL. Hopefully one day.... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites