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So now that you aren't "fat" anymore' date=' are u more confident sexually? I ask because sometimes it is all in our mind and not in our bodies.[/quote']

I am still fat....I said that in one of my earlier posts. 60 Pds from goal weight but as I stated earlier too I have menstrual issues really bad. Really haven't stopped bleeding since surgery so have to hysterectomy in February but I have had a couple encounters that where better. I was thin about 5 years ago and my sex drive did come back and I loved it.... Hoping that happens again!

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Rybecca' date=' I understand what you meant. Ignore the drama :)[/quote']

Thank u!!!

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We had sex yesterday it was amazing found a new position too!

Wtg!!!! If there is a will there is a way!! U go girl!!!

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Really haven't stopped bleeding since surgery so have to hysterectomy in February but I have had a couple encounters that where better. I was thin about 5 years ago and my sex drive did come back and I loved it.... Hoping that happens again!

I'm hoping my sex drive do come back too. Glad things were good when you were thin. For me is different, even when I was thin, I was extremely self conscious. :/

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I also meant to say sorry about all the bleeding, do you know why it happened?

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I love new positions

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If you dont mind me beening in here what are some new positions that people are trying

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I also meant to say sorry about all the bleeding' date=' do you know why it happened?[/quote']

Had some issues about two years ago had an ablasion done instead of husterectomy. But now it's time :-(. 11 Pads today in about 4 hours. Uggh!!

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OMG.. Run girl! LOL.. Just messing!

12 inch Coke can? My ex was like that and at 324lbs' date=' it was VERY uncomfortable and I never enjoyed him. On top of that, latex irritates me and I guess because he was so big, it was even worse!! Good luck with that. Try some lubes if you haven't already.[/quote']

I have just the opposite problem. My hubby is not well endowed, and after having 5 children I'm definitely not a virgin, so sex is rather blah and positions are limited. I'm hoping weight loss will allow better access at the least. Kegels only do so much, but I keep them up anyway. I would much rather be dealing with a too big issue though!

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Its not always about size its about how he rocks your world

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My bf and I were able to have sex standing up!

Nice ive never tried that before congrats to you

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I'm pre-op and I feel the same way. Been single since the golden years. LOL. Hopefully one day....

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