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I still don't have a "style"

I was preppy casual I guess you could say. Polos button ups Tommy Hilfiger. Now I just don't know. I never buy much cause I can't figure "me" out. Right now I am trying to find a dressy blouse to go with some tight black pants that look amazing on me. I am 31 and everything looks a little young or a little mature. Do I shop in misses, Jrs Ladies I DUNNO! Hopefully I can find something nice. Or I'll just have to wear the amazing Victoria Secret Push Up bra I bought to go under it ;-)

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I still don't have a "style"

I was preppy casual I guess you could say. Polos button ups Tommy Hilfiger. Now I just don't know. I never buy much cause I can't figure "me" out. Right now I am trying to find a dressy blouse to go with some tight black pants that look amazing on me. I am 31 and everything looks a little young or a little mature. Do I shop in misses, Jrs Ladies I DUNNO! Hopefully I can find something nice. Or I'll just have to wear the amazing Victoria Secret Push Up bra I bought to go under it ;-)

Haha. It is actually hard to shop in the middle of young and mature. I'd try the Macy's Misses section and see how you do. Kinda depends on your style too...if you like expensive looking things I'd also try discount department stores. If you can find a good specialty thrift store you may have luck. I know we have one here that is half teen designer and half misses designers and I find STELLAR deals there. You just have to find your perfect store. For me it's Plato's Closet but that would be less appropriate for you unless you have a young spirit. My mom shops there with me and we trade clothes but she pulls it off because of her personality. People guess her to be way younger than she is. She wears skinny jeans and uggs at 50...gotta love it! My mom just rocks though, you have to find clothes to match your personality.

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