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Everyone on here is awesome and I so appreciate the support. I'm so happy I found this site because throughout this journey each problem I encounter someone on here has been through it and I hope by posting my experience someone else will be helped.

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Trust me in this if he violates HIPPA hef can perssonally be fined. Lying was wrkng but he should have dropped it. I woukd send him an email clarifying to him that all wasnt entirely true but you have rights under HIPPA and you are using your right to to speak about the complete issue and expect him to keep it confidential too. Good luck with dealing with him.

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Today was great. Nothing was even said about it between he and I and we were together alone working on budgets and the opportunity was there for him to ask more questions and he never said anything. I really feel he is DONE discussing it and totally got the point. Now I just need to take my LOA up with HR and decide how to deal with everyone else. Ugh.... I don't want to start more lies and dig myself into a deeper hole so I'm choosing to not saying anything at all. There is only one girl I worry about because she will have to cover my job while I'm out.

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Everybody in My office knows about my upcoming surgery Everybody is supportive of me doing it. It feels great to have 20 people cheering you on and celebrating your success with you. But I do understand everybody's workplace is different I guess I'm just blessed to have such great coworkers. Having my surgery Dec. 19

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We have had issues in our office of people gossiping about stupid things and getting mad over ignorant things. For instance for Christmas some of us wanted to donate money to a charity for Christmas instead of giving gifts to one another and as a group we made that decision but About three other girls got upset and have been causing problems. There is just already too much drama up there and I want to stay out of any drama

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And that's not the only drama they cause. That is just one example. It happens constantly and they are always trying to keep things stirred up.

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Jessica I understand about that stuff we have some catty stuff goin on here too! I think the most important thing is How you are dealing with the upcoming surgery. Your worries, your excitement etc. For me I'm a little nervous about such a big change in my life. Me personally I have been spending a lot of time with Lord recently through prayer and reading scripture which has been the best for me. If I can be of any support or help just let me know.

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Thanks Gregory.

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