Dating Advice Ladies ...?

[Tinka504 46]

Sooooo...

I have a question, I know this is a time to focus on me, which I am, but I want to start going out and different things. So I have made my Couch potato friends join the real world and turn off Call of Duty 3, and actually go out. My question is... when is a good time to start dating? To get back on the so called "horse". I admit to being a ball buster, but the thought of actually dating is making me feel like a 10 year old leaving her training bras behind... You want it...but you dont. .... So some advice would be greatly appreciated

[lexi710 8]

Why are you worried?

[Tinka504 46]

Why are you worried?

Why wouldnt I be worried? I'm a hundred and fifty pounds lighter. My body is not what it should be, i.e. loose skin, old lunch lady arms, etc. My appearence is different I'm not totally used to the difference in the way that I look, so in essence I am self conscious.. ... and trying to snap out of it

[lexi710 8]

You have made such a huge step in changing your life! I am married now, but I was divorced with two little boys and 260lbs when we met. You have to take the leap and know that not every guy is a fit or will appreciate the difficult journey you've been down. But be honest with them- who you were is a part of you. Match.com is a good stepping stone.