Have Your Relationships Changed?

[OneWritersSoul 353]

My boyfriend of 17 yr paid for the surgery in Mexico including the airfare - the week before we left he started up a cyber affair with a married nasty chick & while I was in the hospital he was at the Marriott sending nude pics of himself. Needless to say we are no longer together & I got this great new body & she is draining him of his money - divorce' date=' apartment, furniture, etc. Is so funny cause it's his loss & now she's way bigger than me. lol.[/quote']

I'm sorry that he was such a jerk (to be completely PG) BUT they say living well is the best revenge. So, keep living well!

[GeauxForIt 659]

My boyfriend of 17 yr paid for the surgery in Mexico including the airfare - the week before we left he started up a cyber affair with a married nasty chick & while I was in the hospital he was at the Marriott sending nude pics of himself. Needless to say we are no longer together & I got this great new body & she is draining him of his money - divorce' date=' apartment, furniture, etc. Is so funny cause it's his loss & now she's way bigger than me. lol.[/quote']

What an a*****e!! Glad you got your surgery out that loser. Go you!!!

[jeepfreak 12]

I am doing better than I've been in years. Figured out I was eating out of depression with him around. Now that he's gone I'm looking good, feeling good, & no negativity in my household! lol. I like to remind him that my new bf loves that he paid for it - I don't have a bf but he doesn't need to know that. ha ha ha

[GeauxForIt 659]

I am doing better than I've been in years. Figured out I was eating out of depression with him around. Now that he's gone I'm looking good' date=' feeling good, & no negativity in my household! lol. I like to remind him that my new bf loves that he paid for it - I don't have a bf but he doesn't need to know that. ha ha ha[/quote']

Love it!!! And I'm a Jeeper, too!

[smithpy 117]

My boyfriend of 17 yr paid for the surgery in Mexico including the airfare - the week before we left he started up a cyber affair with a married nasty chick & while I was in the hospital he was at the Marriott sending nude pics of himself. Needless to say we are no longer together & I got this great new body & she is draining him of his money - divorce' date=' apartment, furniture, etc. Is so funny cause it's his loss & now she's way bigger than me. lol.[/quote']

How sad. So he was supportive at first?

[jeepfreak 12]

How sad. So he was supportive at first?

Actually he was & he still texts & ask me about how things are going but now I just tell him it isn't his business any longer. If he hadn't cheated he could be here in person seeing how things were progressing. ha.

[valdostaGA 149]

I'd be lying if I said I'm not worried about my relationship with my husband after weight loss. He's not supportive of my choice to get WLS' date=' he doesn't want to even know when I get it done. Ive been with him for 10 years and have 3 kids. I'm scared that weight loss will give me the confidence that I've lacked and that I'll stop putting up with his crap. He's not horrible, but I do feel like I put up with far more then what most women put up with.[/quote']

I feel ya! I've gained the confidence not to take no more crap also and will be divorced in a few months! I now know my worth! Bless your heart!

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[It's all new 453]

My relationships improved for the most part. The fact that I don't feel so badly about myself has really helped. My husband and I have been separated since well before surgery, but we are doing amazingly well. I did lose one friend who turned out to be a real jerk - despite the fact that he is very trim and it is a priority for him, he tried to make it very hard for me to make good choices after surgery.

I have found that I would like to find more like minded people - fitness and health folks. I'm not great at meeting new people though and live in a smaller town... I'm sure it will happen with time.