So, My Critical Mother.....

[sleeve_sister 110]

I totally understand. I did not tell my dad until the day before surgery. Mainly I didn't want to worry him since his sister died after having WLS. The day after surgery I woke up (I was in ICU) and he was at my bedside crying. It was horrible. He didn't understand why I would do it and risk my life when I have two beautiful kids. So I explained that that's why I had the surgery and if course he brought up why I couldn't do it on my own. Being that he struggles with his weight, is diabetic, and has htn, my response was..."how's that working for you dad?!?" I think he got my point but I'm 5 wks post op and we haven't discussed weightloss or anything revolving progress or the surgery since. My step brother who is as ripped and healthy as they come made a bet with my 13 yr old that I won't lose weight. And, my mom who is a nutritionist is completely supportive. Go figure! Instead if fighting with them about it I will just prove them wrong in April when I see them again. I'm so glad I no longer live within miles. I feel for you I know how hurtful it is to have the ones you love turn their back on your success. Your still awesome no matter what and you made the right decision by making YOUR life healthier!

[doxieville 799]

Thank you ALL for sharing such personal stories. It really truly helps knowing that I'm not alone. It is hard not getting approval or congrats from someone who I feel should be the most supportive person in my life. Thank you.