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Why keep things secret?

I think some sleevers obviously become vain and bitchy' date=' (and by some of the comments in these threads, it's quite a few) someone they would have avoided when overweight.

I tell anyone who asks, especially overweight people, they need all the help and information they can get, I wish people had shared with me, maybe I would have had this wonderful operation sooner![/quote']

What? What? What???

Not sure why you would call people here vain and bitchy??

That doesn't sound very nice does it??

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What? What? What???

Not sure why you would call people here vain and bitchy??

That doesn't sound very nice does it??

Wait a minute your a Aussie!! I bet vain and bitchy means something else!!!

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OMG

Are you guys really asking me to defend my remark??????

SOME people do change, possibly they were always mean, go figure hey

I'm NOT saying EVERYONE who chooses to keep things private are vain and bitchy, but some are.

Please read a post properly before you attack it's author.

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Wait a minute your a Aussie!! I bet vain and bitchy means something else!!!

Oh! Does it?

But she said she would avoid us? :(

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Wait a minute your a Aussie!! I bet vain and bitchy means something else!!!

I stand corrected she means it..... :P

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I would have and will tell amd explain because if someone hadn't . been open with me I would still be wondering if they can do it why not me!

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OMG

Are you guys really asking me to defend my remark??????

SOME people do change' date=' possibly they were always mean, go figure hey

I'm NOT saying EVERYONE who chooses to keep things private are vain and bitchy, but some are.

Please read a post properly before you attack it's author.[/quote']

Calm down

I read it fine. I was just making a statement.

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And here we see bitchy at its peak :P

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I think this was a valid thread to start and infact was just having a laugh with a friend saying in 6 months when my family at the reunion looks at me with amazement I hope! and ask what dI'd you change I'm goin to say I eat way less and took out carbs baaaaa hsaaaa as if! I've heard that" misrepresentation" a few times . if it were that easy there wiild not be an apademic of obesity . I m not embarrass of my choice. it is not the easy way out! and I could most certainly fail agian inspiteof this tool . knowledge is key and I woild hope that haunesty and transparancy could go far and change a lot of unhealthy unhappy lives

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I'm giving up, you guys win.

I'm really not interested in your Trolling bullshit.

That's what I get you guys are doing to me, even if you disagree, as you are accusing me of something very similar.

Thanks for making me feel like that, hope you are proud of yourselves.

Obviously our cultures are too far apart and not as similar as I had thought.

I'll stick to the Aussie room from now on, that way I won't be misunderstood.

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Well I have acknowledged that my not being forthcoming is selfish of me but I have my reasons be it if they are wrong or not... I'm on the fence half the time. I tell lots of people but some places/situations are harder to talk about it and that's when I try and change the subject.

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I'm giving up' date=' you guys win.

I'm really not interested in your Trolling bullshit.

That's what I get you guys are doing to me, even if you disagree, as you are accusing me of something very similar.

Thanks for making me feel like that, hope you are proud of yourselves.

Obviously our cultures are too far apart and not as similar as I had thought.

I'll stick to the Aussie room from now on, that way I won't be misunderstood.[/quote']

I still don't get it?

You're upset. Sorry I upset you.

Wasn't my intent.

I was just stating that I don't tell people but I'm not vain or bitchy.

That's all.

Sorry you feel like a troll

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Where is Dean the negotiator when you need him :P

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What I think we have here is a failure to communicate... Although "troll" and "bullshit"

Are hard to mix up as a nicety...

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