jessfharris 70 Posted November 1, 2012 Ok havent been on Vsg talk in a while... So much has happened since then... As some may know I'm goin thru a divorce due to a cheating husband 2 weeks after surgery... And if that wasn't enough I have been diagnosed with major depression... And I been eating very little and I get dehydrated alot... I also have my soon to be ex calling me for some private time now that he's noticing how much attention I been getn from men... He can't have his cake and eat it too!! Uggh, anywho my date of surgery was 8/15 and I was 349 lbs and now I sit at 276 lbs at a total loss of -73 lbs... !!!!!!! Here's some pics... 4 mrsdaugherty, Strangefruit, whitneymalae and 1 other reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
slimagainsoon 88 Posted November 1, 2012 Ok havent been on Vsg talk in a while... So much has happened since then... As some may know I'm goin thru a divorce due to a cheating husband 2 weeks after surgery... And if that wasn't enough I have been diagnosed with major depression... And I been eating very little and I get dehydrated alot... I also have my soon to be ex calling me for some private time now that he's noticing how much attention I been getn from men... He can't have his cake and eat it too!! Uggh, anywho my date of surgery was 8/15 and I was 349 lbs and now I sit at 276 lbs at a total loss of -73 lbs... !!!!!!! Here's some pics... Rock that sleeve you go! Divorce can be tough. Been there done that. I wish you the best. You continue to take care of your self . Everything will be alright! Nice pics! Hopefully in a couple weeks I will hear from my surgeon about surgery date. I have completed all preoperative steps. Live your life to the fullest. God Bless Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wnicoleb 25 Posted November 1, 2012 Eff him! Don't give him that private time he doesn't deserve it!!! You look fab tho!!! I started at the same weight as u! I'm a week post op and I got excited seeing ur progress! 1 slimagainsoon reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ozeedonkee 145 Posted November 1, 2012 You look fabulous! And one thing I noticed is that you look much happier in your after shots - keep it up, take care of no 1. (YOU), and let him go. There are better things waiting for you Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
doxieville 799 Posted November 1, 2012 Hey there! I wondered where u went & how ur doing. I'm so glad that you sought treatment for the depression. When those chemicals are out of whack it makes daily life such a struggle. You look great! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tiffany Talbert Corbet 46 Posted November 1, 2012 You look FANTASTIC!! Apparently he didn't understand the vow "for better or worse"....so let him have the worse (being stupid enough to cheat and lose you) and you keep the better (getting the attention you deserve from better guys than him)!!! Enjoy! You're doing what's best for you....not only have you lost the weight with the sleeve so far, you've lost additional weight/baggage by letting him go. Congrats!!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LessofKelly 62 Posted November 1, 2012 Ummm you were beautiful heavier.... Now? Youre ridiculously beautiful!!! Wow. Your ex is the dumbest dummy alive!! Laugh at him and enjoy your new georgeous self! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Yummy 34 Posted November 1, 2012 You look great.! && about your ex don't give him anytime, his fault he lost a good thing, u deserve so much more..a man to support u every step of the way not a cheater that caused depression (Shame on him) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mrsdaugherty 28 Posted November 1, 2012 You go!! You are doing an amazing job!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
katieb 80 Posted November 1, 2012 You look amazing!!! This is just the beginning. Just think of how much more you will have lost in 3 more months. I was sleeved in April and in July I saw a huge difference. Now 3 months later from July I'm a whole different person! I guess what I am trying to Say is you look amazing now in 3 more months you will look even more amazing. Do not give your soon to be ex private time. If he was cheating before he will cheat again. I know first hand how hard divorce is and how scary it seems to be alone. Your depression will get better the more weight you lose. I am 6 months post op and I am off my depression meds! Once you get that self confidence you will shake the depression! Once again you look amazing!! Keep it up! Hit the gym and eat that protein!! God bless! Katie 1 Strangefruit reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frza 194 Posted November 1, 2012 Wow, you're looking so good, and so much happier! Congrats! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
muffintop 62 Posted November 1, 2012 Do not get him any of your time, he made a vow and failed on his end of the bargain. Im of the mind set once a cheat always a cheat...PS. Great job and love your hair! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
