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Hello

I had surgery October 1, 2012. February 1, 2012 is when I first saw the surgeon to get this ball rolling, literally, lol. I have spent so much time and effort into this life changing moment, that now, after its actually done, I am kind bored with it. That's probably weird to say, but its how I feel. I am not having any complications or pain, no regrets, and everyone is being supportive. But...the hype is over for me. I used to be excited about food, trying new foods, and experiencing new flavors (maybe that was my problem), but since being on a liquid diet for almost a month now, I am bored with it. Soup, broth, yogurt, Jello, and Protein shakes. Plus, the scale isnt moving and I am not too excited about jumping on. Its like, eh...whatever. Just like all the fad diets, I have done before. Maybe its because I have been a hermit since surgery, but I need some kind of motivation...

How do I get out of this funk?? -_-

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This is really difficult for you. It sounds as though the surgery became the goal, when, in fact, it is only one step along the path that never ends. Are you exercising? That may improve your mood.

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Mini Mo, What you're experiencing is pretty normal, I think. I lost interest in a lot of flavors and textures after surgery. I think it might be related to the loss of ghrelin and the trauma our bodies have had, but rest assured that you will get your mojo back. Once the weight loss kicks in and starts really happening, you'll get excited again, but it's common for folks to be a little depressed and let down after any much anticipated event.

Good luck!! :)

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