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Ughhh I'm only Down 45 pounds, but my husband can't seem to keep his hands to himself. I mean at first this was cute but now every time I turn a corner he is grabbing me. I'm glad he is finding me attractive, however I'm getting a bit tired of the groping. Anyone else having this issue with their significant other?

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I would love that!!! :)

Our love life is better than ever.

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That happens to me now...not looking forward to later. I just ignore him. LOL!

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My husband is a little more friskier as well. It will pass but I think it is just a new me that he is getting used to all over again...LOL

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I thought I was the only one :rolleyes: It was VERY cute at first, but now it's like, GIVE ME A BREAK SIR!!! My mind is so busy with food choices, stalls, scale not moving, cravings, the last thing I need is to have him harass me all the time.

But with that said, deep down inside I am glad that he is showing me so much attention! Love the guy :wub:

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I think it would take a very long time for me to get tired of the excess of attention from hubby.

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Did you complain of not being touched enough prior to your weight loss?

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Did you complain of not being touched enough prior to your weight loss?

No never complained. He was always pretty affectionate, however lately it's just a bit much. I guess I shouldn't complain.

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I get you! Also - there's a difference between say a cuddle/hug and being groped. I don't get cuddles, I do get groped. And it pisses me off too. I'm not just a pair of boobs.

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I tell my husband that he is a serial fondler, and when I reach goal (78 more lbs, I'm down 81 so far) that I'm getting some 16 yr old boobies and he can have these deflated Water balloons put on his chest so he can play with them all day!!!

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I get you! Also - there's a difference between say a cuddle/hug and being groped. I don't get cuddles' date=' I do get groped. And it pisses me off too. I'm not just a pair of boobs.[/quote']

I'm so glad I'm not alone :-)

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I tell my husband that he is a serial fondler' date=' and when I reach goal (78 more lbs, I'm down 81 so far) that I'm getting some 16 yr old boobies and he can have these deflated Water balloons put on his chest so he can play with them all day!!![/quote']

Lol :-)

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