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I cheated on my pre op diet and surgery is Tuesday.. I was doing ok too*sigh*

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Its ok... Just get back on the waggon and pretend nothing happened

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I cheated on my pre op diet and surgery is Tuesday.. I was doing ok too*sigh*

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Your "officially a failure"? Sorry to hear you've given up.

Wait, what was that you said? You say you are gonna try again? Well, in that case I think you might have misunderstood the meaning of failure. Everybody slips, everybody falls. The difference between being a success or a failure is getting up 1 more time.

Now take this can of Bactien, spray off your skinned knee, then tighten up your boots and start climbing again.

You will not "fail" not as long as we are here. We won't let you.

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Awwwww you guys are seriously AWESOME!!!! THANK YOU for your support;)

It feels horrible! But ill get back up, start my liquid diet tomorrow and hopefully with a smile!

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Oh dear... we all cheated at some point... Nothing too serious.. You just have to remember to get back up on that wagon and move on.. it doesn't make you a failure.. it means you're human...

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Also, don't say "tomorrow"... say "right now". :) Even if you aren't going to eat/drink anything until tomorrow, you are actually starting right now.

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I cheated on mine for the last 5 days before surgery. I watched what I ate but just didn't use the "powder" they sold me to eat. I still lost and I fine for surgery. Don't bet yourself up....start over right now.

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You're right ladies I'm starting now;)

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One misstep does not a failure make.

i love this one. however, i could not help but to read it in yoda's voice.

ready2bskinny, we all have bad days, the choices you make on whether to start over again, or lay down and die will be the difference between a bad day, and a bad life.

you can do this, we all need help at one point or another.

life is good.

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Nothing is a failure unless you do not learn from it :)

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Thanks everyone;)

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