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chellewill16

By chellewill16, in Singles Forum

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chellewill16    46

chellewill16
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First date with this man was over a month ago pre-op. Tonight is date #2 two and I'm 24 lbs lighter. Why am I such a nervous wreck?!?!? I have changed clothes twelve times. Wtf!?!!

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lozzad    3

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First date with this man was over a month ago pre-op. Tonight is date #2 two and I'm 24 lbs lighter. Why am I such a nervous wreck?!?!? I have changed clothes twelve times. Wtf!?!!

You'll be fine! I'm sure you look amazing good luck hope the dates good keep us informed how it goes :) and congrats on the 24lbs! That's amsxing

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chellewill16    46

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Thanks!!

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kmbrlycool    214

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Have a great time!

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chellewill16    46

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Well that was a huge disappointment. Oh well.

He fell asleep on me after saying I was "cute".

Back to my couch

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kmbrlycool    214

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He's not worth your time!

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chellewill16    46

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Nooooo not even close. Oh well. I least I got into those pants I bought 4 months ago. Down to a 18. Who Hoo!!!!

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CaliKat    153

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Lol.... I am betting if you are a hot mama now and still new to the VSG- and you are STILL getting dates....

in a few months your social calendar will be on FIRE!!! You wont be on the market long. :)

eat, date & be merry!

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chellewill16    46

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Lol thanks. Getting dates isn't hard. As you can tell from the profile pic. I'm not exactly shy. I have no idea why it was so weird tonight. I guess I'm just not used to this body. No big deal about the dud tonight.

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