valdostaGA 149 Posted September 29, 2012 My sister is not sure if she can come. My husband have no desire to even be there...I'm sad and hurt:( don't know what to do Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AngelEyesInNJ 187 Posted September 29, 2012 Just remember that you are doing this for you. If you really want it, you can always go alone although I know it is better to have someone by your side. I hope everything works out 1 suegirl reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mozaya 4 Posted September 29, 2012 My sister is not sure if she can come. My husband have no desire to even be there...I'm sad and hurt:( don't know what to do Girl don't give up my husband did not understand why I was doing this and I had no support also but I got sleeved 8/29 on my own. Had to find a ride home but did it for me and 2 weeks later got off all high blood pressure meds that I was on for 11 years! I have lost 32lbs and now the hubby finally gets it! Love you! 3 AngelEyesInNJ, lilly's journey and Almostthere34 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ljperez 87 Posted September 29, 2012 I was in the same boat. No support from the family. Nobody could understand why I was being so selfish. I posted here and got a lot of support. We can be your support. I went to the hospital on my own and asked that no one come to see me. Well they did come after I was in my room and my husband actually came everyday to see me. My neighbor said he was almost in tears when she asked how I was doing. It might be that your husband is scared. Do it do it do it. We are here for you. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LessofKelly 62 Posted September 29, 2012 You have to look out for number 1. Yourself. This is the only life you're going to get. Live it for you. 2 shellybee and AngelEyesInNJ reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shellybee 14 Posted September 29, 2012 I say go. Do you best wishes to you. I hope he has a change if heart. Sent from my iPhone using VST Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
scaredoftheunknown 95 Posted September 29, 2012 I agree with everyone else do it for yourself! If your sister can't be there and your husband decided he wants nothing to do with it. Find a ride from the.hospital and make sure you stock up on your food and you will be fine. When I came home from the hospital I was on my own my husband had to work and no one else.was around. Good luck! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
valdostaGA 149 Posted September 29, 2012 I'm working on finding a way home I live in Ga and my surgery is 2 hours away in Fl. I have no family in my city they are all 2 hours away and not to supportive...but I'm gonna be just fine even if I have to call a guy friend that I actually had to get to go with me to my preop Wednesday. 2 scaredoftheunknown and suegirl reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SLEEVEDNBEAUTIFUL 42 Posted September 29, 2012 I'm working on finding a way home I live in Ga and my surgery is 2 hours away in Fl. I have no family in my city they are all 2 hours away and not to supportive...but I'm gonna be just fine even if I have to call a guy friend that I actually had to get to go with me to my preop Wednesday. . I have lived in Valdosta before and said I was glad to be gone both times. However at this moment I wished I was there to give u some support. Wishing u well. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
valdostaGA 149 Posted September 30, 2012 . I have lived in Valdosta before and said I was glad to be gone both times. However at this moment I wished I was there to give u some support. Wishing u well. . Thanks! I love Valdosta! Been here 5 years. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
valdostaGA 149 Posted September 30, 2012 . I have lived in Valdosta before and said I was glad to be gone both times. However at this moment I wished I was there to give u some support. Wishing u well. . Thanks! I love Valdosta! Been here 5 years. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chris54 106 Posted September 30, 2012 This is really about you do whatever you need to do. God is with you and so are the people on this site. This is going to change your life and give you a longer time. Most people do not really understand. Take the emotion out of the situation and remember you are doing this for your life. Sometimes we have to stand alone. I will pray for you Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SLEEVEDNBEAUTIFUL 42 Posted September 30, 2012 . Thanks! I love Valdosta! Been here 5 years. I have never loved it. Lol. When I pass thru we will definitely have to cross paths Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shayv123 96 Posted September 30, 2012 Pray for your husband too, he needs to understand that this benefits your family. You will do great!!! You can do it!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites