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[Nessa1977 155]

Excuse me if I sound, is the word naive?

I think someone is flirting with me and I back.....but I don't know if it's flirting.

Help!

No one has ever taken an interest in me, so not sure if he's just being friendly or...

[saritawillslim 11]

Dnt b scared n dnt letm c ur nervous jus b u, laugh giggle make conversation walk past him n c id he stops u. I used to b a real clubber but I still have my skills lol for a big girl I knew how to work it lol jk have fun sweety n go with the flow...

[Mr_Worm 129]

Welcome to the fun world. My calendar now stays "booked"

[Cookeeeeez 269]

Excuse me if I sound, is the word naive?

I think someone is flirting with me and I back.....but I don't know if it's flirting.

Help!

No one has ever taken an interest in me, so not sure if he's just being friendly or...

Oh, it can be really hard to tell- its good if you're obviously getting along it means your compatible...

Try the touch factor! If they have a beard or curly hair you can try briefly touching it, it will see how comfortable he is and show him you don't mind being touched back. Same thing with his arm or leg, a gentle brush and laugh or big smile.

You will have to be more confident around him, smile bigger, laugh a little more, treat him like you would a girl friend.

You can also get more serious, you can ask for (or offer to do) a "favour" that takes a little while and encourages more contact, like getting a coffee for you (him), helping you carry some parcels, fix something, lend/borrow something... Basically anything you can think of to make the relationship more personal... Usually this will also send off alarm bells to let him know you do actually like him and his company... You can also use the excuse you need some fresh air would he like to go for a walk with you...

After all this extra attention if he doesn't ask you out for a drink after dinner or actively make excuses himself to stay around you longer then he is just being friendly

I got my boys attention because I wasn't flirting, I was just being nice and playing pool with him and I hurt my hand, he came over and rubbed it better and I felt the sparks... He did too because he kissed me (to the complete dismay of my friends who had been fawning over him!) lol

Now that your on the losers bench you'll get a lot of attention but the rules still apply, if you give out attention and they just accept it and don't offer their own (basically ask you out!) then it's time to move on to the next one

[ArcusX 216]

Nessa - you don't really say, but if it's someone at work, you might think twice about it. There are many, many sayings about dating someone you work with. Sure, it can work out, but odds are slim in the long term, and if it doesn't you don't want to have to go looking for a new job - unless you already dislike it!.

That being said, there are (inappropriate) ways you can be sure!

[Nessa1977 155]

He's a specialist and only comes in on a fortnightly basis....so technically...

I'll see what happens over the coming weeks. Maybe I'm just reading too much into it.

I'm new to all this.