momto3girls 61 Posted September 25, 2012 Hello Everyone, I am 13 days post op, down 34 pounds. I'm feeling much better, I don't have much pain at all. I decided to hv sex with hubby, well it was great and well over due, two wks almost. I was so worried I would e in so much pain but so happy it wasn't that type of pain. Has anyone experienced the opposite and do you all that that was too soon? Yay for skinny sex!! LOL! But I am not ready to venture there yet...my incisions are still causing too much pain. Although I am positive my husband would LOVE for me to be ready...BTW, how much weight do you need to lose because your profile pic doesn't look like you need to lose ANY.... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
momto3girls 61 Posted September 25, 2012 Well, friends, today was the first day of soft solids and wow, it is hard. I made a Protein Shake at 9:30am and still haven't finished it. I have no idea how some of you can drink 2 of those in a day. And I have been so full that I am not even drinking my Water. Hardly going to the bathroom today which concerns me (and my kidneys!). Then this afternoon in my Quest to get more Protein I scrambled my first egg at about 2:20pm. I melted one wedge of Laughing Cow Queso Fresco and Chipotle cheese in with it to make it more mushy. OMG! Heaven! It tasted so good but still at 4:23pm can't finish it. I have given up after heating it up twice in the microwave. it just feels like it is sitting in a lump in my tummy. But now I am trying to drink another 8oz of Powerade just to get some liquids in. Who knew this was going to be so dang hard? 1 Velena reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
zowie66 6 Posted September 25, 2012 I am in north Dallas too. Had my surgery with dr Nicholson Forest park medical in frisco. U know baylor Plano has a support group that meets 2nd Wednesday of the month Sent from my iPhone using VST Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ready4change77 88 Posted September 25, 2012 I am in north Dallas too. Had my surgery with dr Nicholson Forest park medical in frisco. U know baylor Plano has a support group that meets 2nd Wednesday of the month Sent from my iPhone using VST Oh ok, ik Baylor Carrollton or maybe that is the one that has one - I need to go to one soon - I think it would help to see some people in person that might be goin thru the same thing as me... Wow you live around here to then - I stay off Frankford/Vail in that area... Well we need to meet up @ some point... Sent from my iPhone using VST Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mufasas-mom 170 Posted September 25, 2012 I think i may go to the support class in oct Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
newgrandmother 725 Posted September 25, 2012 zowie we welcome you mufasa i feel you on that. we have free food inthe cafe we shall see stallisa welcome glad you came over mom how far out are you and maybe its to soon to add solids. well guys i didi something really really bad today. i went to the store and got a cupcake. i ate it didnt feel anything but it was a little heavy in my tummy i now have diarriia but i dont know if its from that because i made some tuna with light mayo and relish and i have that vomit feeling in my chest just a little to notice. hummmmmmmmmmmm. im going to try the tuna again to make sure it wasnt that and now i dont want to see no sweets cake candy none of it yukkkkkkkk. wierd huh? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stalissa01 6 Posted September 25, 2012 I started off at 248 and would like to get down to at least 140-150. I'm 210 now, last I checked. My pics do me much justice but I def need to loose weight. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ready4change77 88 Posted September 25, 2012 zowie we welcome you mufasa i feel you on that. we have free food inthe cafe we shall see stallisa welcome glad you came over mom how far out are you and maybe its to soon to add solids. well guys i didi something really really bad today. i went to the store and got a cupcake. i ate it didnt feel anything but it was a little heavy in my tummy i now have diarriia but i dont know if its from that because i made some tuna with light mayo and relish and i have that vomit feeling in my chest just a little to notice. hummmmmmmmmmmm. im going to try the tuna again to make sure it wasnt that and now i dont want to see no sweets cake candy none of it yukkkkkkkk. wierd huh? They say the bad foods go down easier then healthy sometimes but I bet that cupcake tasted like heaven - you deserved it... & yea when I did tuna yesterday it had me feeling yuck so I won't be trying that again & today I just ate hard boiled eggs & I had no bad reaction... Sent from my iPhone using VST Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ready4change77 88 Posted September 25, 2012 I started off at 248 and would like to get down to at least 140-150. I'm 210 now' date=' last I checked. My pics do me much justice but I def need to loose weight.[/quote'] How tall are you?? I was 242 when I started pre-op & now down to 218 - cant wait to get under 200 & I'm short... Just 5' 1/2inch Sent from my iPhone using VST Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stalissa01 6 Posted September 25, 2012 I can't wait to get under 200 as well. It's starting to move really slow and seems like its going to be harder once I start purée. 1 ready4change77 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mommeof3 58 Posted September 25, 2012 Trust me I feel your pain, I have regretted it many days since having it on 9/12... I have had the same emotions that you have had... I pray it gets better for all who feel like this... Ik all you want is to be able to eat normal & not have any weird side effects... I can eat soft foods now but the weird stuck like feeling it has when it goes down has me not wanting to eat so trust me ik where come'n from... Sometimes I wish there was a reversal process or maybe even that they only took 1/2 our stomach not 80% of it... We will get past these feelings though, just know your not alone in this, although all of here are in different places we are still here for each other from a distance.... Sent from my iPhone using VST I just hate to vent about this but I am feeling so bad. I am going to continue to pray and when i see my doc i am going to ask him why he had to cut so much stomach out....LOL. Thanks so much for the support. I think that if i can get over the feeling of the little pain that i feel when i swallow i will be fine. Oh and the heartburn that i never had. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
zowie66 6 Posted September 25, 2012 Yeah we will definitely plan on meeting and supporting each other as well. I live off of north Dallas tollway and windhaven not far from u. We can probably get together at the support group meeting 2nd Wednesday of the month. All of our new friends around Dfw Sent from my iPhone using VST Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Velena 122 Posted September 25, 2012 I feel that I did better today, I started using Gold Standard 100% whey Protein, I'm able to drink 8oz mixed with milk down in about 1/2 hour. I had one for Breakfast and lunch (it's easier to have one at work - I don't have to worry about dumping. For dinner I had 5 garbanzo Beans (cooked), 1 1/2 tablespoons of refried beans with melted cheddar cheese and 1 teaspoon of guacamole. It tasted so good I really wanted to eat more, but I got that heavy feeling in my throat and stopped. Maybe I'll try another tablespoon later tonight. Maybe I finally have this phase figured out? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ready4change77 88 Posted September 26, 2012 I'm 5 6 Oh ok, I'm a shorty - lol - goal weight is between 130-140 Sent from my iPhone using VST Share this post Link to post Share on other sites