female only How Long Did You Wait To.......

[cantw8t2bme 24]

How long did you wait to "seal the deal" post surgery? My hubby thinks im not ready but.....im pretty sure I AM lol

[cherrybombknits 184]

After my hysterectomy I asked the obgyn how soon we could "seal the deal". He asked me how fast I could drive home.

Just take it slow and listen to your body.

[Chelle68 27]

Sealed the deal on day 11 ; )

[cherrybombknits 184]

Woot!

[nyxa 159]

if you're feeling it, you're ready lol besides, it makes you happier & more energetic, so it is healthy for you, too! and not a bad way to burn some extra calories.. lol

[Piplula 709]

Mine was a little farther out ..I had a hematoma at an incision site just moving really hurt..I found cowgirl to be easier though for me because then I could control the "deal"

[cantw8t2bme 24]

I do have an infection on my one of my incisions - is that the same as a hematoma?

I am def ready - he agreed and it was sealed hehehe.... i can say it was uncomfortable at times.. cant wait til im 100% feeling better

[Piplula 709]

I do have an infection on my one of my incisions - is that the same as a hematoma?

I am def ready - he agreed and it was sealed hehehe.... i can say it was uncomfortable at times.. cant wait til im 100% feeling better

No infection is not the same..a hematoma is formed when you have a tear and a blood clot forms. It was incredibly painful and eventually dissolved at 8 weeks.. One of my internal stitches ripped open when I sneezed and a small hematoma formed. I was very happy when the site finally felt better.

[SunnyCox 245]

3 days. No problems.

[cantw8t2bme 24]

3 days. No problems.

Wow!!!! There is no way after 3 dats for me lol

[Rootman 1,101]

At least wait til you're out of the recovery room Badum-Dump!

All kidding aside, just take it slow and remember that there are other positions other than man-on-top and other forms that produce desirable results. And if you're a sweetheart and just not ready perhaps you would satisfyy his needs without a, um, "full monty".

[jgirl75 156]

3 days. No problems.

3 days for me too!!!

[nyxa 159]

At least wait til you're out of the recovery room Badum-Dump!

All kidding aside, just take it slow and remember that there are other positions other than man-on-top and other forms that produce desirable results. And if you're a sweetheart and just not ready perhaps you would satisfyy his needs without a, um, "full monty".

his needs??? what about mine? LOL what if the girl is the randy one?

[kmwheel 127]

After my hysterectomy I asked the obgyn how soon we could "seal the deal". He asked me how fast I could drive home.

Just take it slow and listen to your body.

Are you kidding? My surgeon made me wait 6 weeks (after hysterectomy)!! I didn't 'quite' make it that far, but that was excruciating. I'm hoping just as soon as I feel better we'll figure something out.

[ladydeenj 132]

I'm 5 weeks out and tonight was my second try at it. I have to admit didn't feel too good! I was uncomfortable as much as I really wanted it! Guess I wasn't ready !