SlevieNicks 9 Posted September 6, 2012 So I wake up to find out I was cut open and the surgery wasn't even done since my liver is still too large...they want me to lose 20 lbs before they will attempt it again... I'm so dissapointed and feel like maybe that this surgery isn't in the cards for me... I get in a car wreck in the surgery parking lot...and now I go under the knife to be closed back up. They knew my weight before I went under I don't get it Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Toyaboo22 51 Posted September 6, 2012 Oh crap, I didn't know they would do that. I'm so sorry to hear that. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Joisey01 87 Posted September 6, 2012 Oh no. I am so sorry!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
notime 340 Posted September 6, 2012 This is a blow and I understand your disappointment. Take a minute to let it get to you...... Now that the minute is up, make your plans for losing the 20 pounds. Before my surgery, I joined Weight Watchers and lost more than 20 pounds in a few months. You can stay on the liquid diet. Weight can be lost any number of ways, it's the keeping it off that is tough and you won't have to go through the agony of trying to keep it off once you've had the surgery. So get up and keep going for the golden ring. You made your decision; now you have to make it happen. Please keep us updated on your progress. 7 DanaInNewOrleans, BeagleLover, kryssaboo and 4 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
prettysleeved1 173 Posted September 6, 2012 Did you have to do a pre-op diet? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jusstice 103 Posted September 6, 2012 I am sorry for what you are going through. Like PP said, maybe a week or two on the pre-op diet is all you will need to lose those pounds. I was wondering, if you don't mind me asking, what your weight is? I am pre-op and this is one of my worries. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
carolc 94 Posted September 6, 2012 What a bummer, I am sorry! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
besquared1426 49 Posted September 6, 2012 Wow, my doctor requires would-be patients to agree to an open surgery IF for any reason, including large liver, they can't do it laproscopically. What an unfortunate suprise for you. If you really want this, I'm sure you'll manage the 20 lbs though I know it will be hard. Good luck. I feel for you. 1 BeagleLover reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NDN_RN 527 Posted September 6, 2012 So I wake up to find out I was cut open and the surgery wasn't even done since my liver is still too large...they want me to lose 20 lbs before they will attempt it again... I'm so dissapointed and feel like maybe that this surgery isn't in the cards for me... I get in a car wreck in the surgery parking lot...and now I go under the knife to be closed back up. They knew my weight before I went under I don't get it Did you have a preop diet? Sorry to hear this' date=' I would be beside myself.. But be strong, lose the 20 and move into your new life! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
choc_thicktothin 37 Posted September 6, 2012 This is horrible and I am sorry to hear that you had this experience. But you will find nothing but encouragement and support from fellow sleevers in this forum. Take the advice and use all the negative emotions you are currently feeling to get those pounds off and back on track to obtaining your ultimate goals!!. Good luck and God Bless!! 3 BeagleLover, Lissa and DanaInNewOrleans reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lissa 2,631 Posted September 6, 2012 I'm so sorry that you didn't get your sleeve! I agree with everyone else, drop that 20 pounds any way you can safely do so and then get back in there. It will definitely be worth it!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
muffintop 62 Posted September 6, 2012 So Im confused and apologize in advance, does your liver become fatty faster of your obese? How does a liquid diet of one or two weeks help shrink the liver enough? How can someone be over 300 lbs but have an ok liver am someone possibly 200 does not? Is there not any prepp type tests to check this before being cut open? Now I worry and totally understand your frustration. You can do this! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NDN_RN 527 Posted September 6, 2012 So Im confused and apologize in advance' date=' does your liver become fatty faster of your obese? How does a liquid diet of one or two weeks help shrink the liver enough? How can someone be over 300 lbs but have an ok liver am someone possibly 200 does not? Is there not any prepp type tests to check this before being cut open? Now I worry and totally understand your frustration. You can do this![/quote'] Many surgeons will have a one or two week liquid diet specifically to shrink the liver. Fatty liver occurs in obese people and shrinks with extreme dieting. Its to make room and reduce possible complications. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Justine13 264 Posted September 6, 2012 Ugh what a damn bummer! I would be furious!! So I'm with you on this one. At the same time- you can't give up. Do the liquid diet and in just a couple weeks this can happen for you. Be my inspiration here. Don't give up on this. Some positives: 1) anesthesia went well for you yes? So no worries next time then? 2). You know exactly what you need to do and you can do it- black and white I'm not sure what your work situation is though- how will that work out? So sorry to hear this but hang on....... :) 1 mamitalosingit reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
prettysleeved1 173 Posted September 6, 2012 So Im confused and apologize in advance, does your liver become fatty faster of your obese? How does a liquid diet of one or two weeks help shrink the liver enough? How can someone be over 300 lbs but have an ok liver am someone possibly 200 does not? Is there not any prepp type tests to check this before being cut open? Now I worry and totally understand your frustration. You can do this! There are ways to check for a fatty liver. Low-carb diets also help shrink livers and from my understanding, the process starts fairly soon after undertaking (around 48 hours). I've never had fatty liver so I don't know all the particulars but during my pre-op, they checked my liver levels (through blood tests) and I also got a body scan. Maybe the OP's, doctor did not do that. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites