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Have surgery on Tuesday and while I am so excited - I am do scared! Anyone else feeling like this? Or felt like this? What did you do to get through? Thank you!!

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It is so natural to feel nervous before your surgery. I was excited, nervous and scared all at the same time. I got through it by just reminding myself of the prize, a happier, healthier me who will be around for a long time.

Good luck with your surgery and let us know how everything goes!

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Have surgery on Tuesday and while I am so excited - I am do scared! Anyone else feeling like this? Or felt like this? What did you do to get through? Thank you!!

I am having surgery Tuesday as well! I don't feel nervous at all. I guess it's bc I am so ready!

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Thank you Susan! I totally was ready I

Have worked really hard on my liquid diet ( I ate a few saltines when I had nausea ) but other wise I was completely ready until right now! Ugh! But you are right Susan this is what I need to do for a happy healthy me. Thanks again! Guess I just needed a little reassurance!

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No problem. That's what we are here for. You got this girl!

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Have surgery on Tuesday and while I am so excited - I am do scared! Anyone else feeling like this? Or felt like this? What did you do to get through? Thank you!!

I have surgery on Tuesday also and I am anxious scared excited all at once. I worry it will fail like all other diets failed before. I worry I will have a serious complication. I also worry if I don't have the surgery the obesity will kill me so I choose to trust my surgeon, and I know I have a husband who supports me and great people on here who are rooting for me to achieve success. We will both do great!!!

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I am scheduled for Tuesday also and very nervous! I can't think straight and have a lot of anxiety :blink:

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I'm sure you guys will do great! Good luck and keep us posted!

*This statement is meant as an expression of encouragement and support only. Since I'm not a medical professional, none of the above statement is meant as medical assurances or advice. Nor was this statement in any way to be rude or condescending and shouldn't be taken as such by any current or potential reader or forum member participant.

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I'm scheduled for 10/15 and I'm also scared, but I know that this has to be done! I'm 29 and have been fat my entire life since as far back as I can remember. I am feeling better by reading others people experiences and success. Good luck to you. Stay strong!

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My surgeon told me if I hadn't been nervous/anxious/scared that I wouldn't be 'normal' and he'd worrry. I got sleeved 8/21, nerves and all. :-)

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