pattivalvo 23 Posted August 26, 2012 Wow first time I had sex since surgery and I'm almost 4weeks post op and it was amazing and felt completely different! I can get used to this:) I imagine that it will get better and better! Yippee 1 UTGal99 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sexyme 24 Posted August 26, 2012 Lol...... Yeah that's all I kept saying to my husband is I can't wait to get small again. When I got big I couldn't get on top anymore .....and oh boy that sucked.... Totally sucks .......fat sex is not for me 2 xavtay2 and pattivalvo reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sil222 59 Posted August 26, 2012 My hubby loves the new flexible me 2 mrscastillo and pattivalvo reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Star1221 270 Posted August 26, 2012 Oh my god.. I couldn't have waited 4 weeks lol. I just read a post this morning about how different thinner sex is for a man. Just letting you know, it's different for a woman too. From my biggest, I am 105 lbs down. From pre-op and surgery, I am 90 pounds. So when I remember how self conscious I was and all the fat bouncing and stuff, it's really... Gross.. LOL. There's nothing hotter than being told that your but bruised their groin... Just saying LOL. It gets better... 1 pattivalvo reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pattivalvo 23 Posted August 26, 2012 I still on a high today lol I had to wait 4 weeks cause I had a ton of pain and was scared. There's ways around waiting lol Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mommeof3 58 Posted August 26, 2012 Yet another reason why i am having this surgery...Can't wait to show my husband what i can really do to him...LOL 2 tonya9969 and pattivalvo reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Queen of Crop 1,104 Posted August 26, 2012 My husband and I always has a good sex life (he's tall and thin) but after 26 years together our sex life is soooooooooo much more fun!!! We not only have more sex, better sex but we talk about it and laugh about it so much more now. No longer is the 800 lb Gorilla in the room.....my weight when it came to sex bothered him but he just didn't know how to tell me, until one day he just had a melt down....that was the beginning of my journey to surgery. I think that heavy partners often don't realize just how it affects their thinner partners....but you find out once you lose.....plus it's so much fun wearing beautiful underwear now! We both love it! Have fun everyone! 2 pattivalvo and tonya9969 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladiecre 7 Posted August 26, 2012 Sex is so much fun. My husband can't keep his hands off of me. I lost 30 pounds in about 4weeks thats alot a weight to him. I told him wait till I drop another 30 2 pattivalvo and tonya9969 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sexyme 24 Posted August 26, 2012 Sex is so much fun. My husband can't keep his hands off of me. I lost 30 pounds in about 4weeks thats alot a weight to him. I told him wait till I drop another 30 I know that's right 1 pattivalvo reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pattivalvo 23 Posted August 26, 2012 My husband and I always has a good sex life (he's tall and thin) but after 26 years together our sex life is soooooooooo much more fun!!! We not only have more sex' date=' better sex but we talk about it and laugh about it so much more now. No longer is the 800 lb Gorilla in the room.....my weight when it came to sex bothered him but he just didn't know how to tell me, until one day he just had a melt down....that was the beginning of my journey to surgery. I think that heavy partners often don't realize just how it affects their thinner partners....but you find out once you lose.....plus it's so much fun wearing beautiful underwear now! We both love it! Have fun everyone![/quote'] I love it!!! That's great! I can relate:) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites