Parker's Dad 50 Posted August 21, 2012 I couldn't decide where to put this one so I figured that most of it's gonna come after surgery so I put it in post op. Feel free to move it if necessary. I was reading another thread and someone said these words and it made me think about what I have learned reading this board and was amazed at the responses I saw stating that they were not told such and such before hand. What are some things that you have learned after the fact?? The things you didn't find out until you were elbow deep into this journey... Let's hear them, the good, the bad, and the ugly. I know that I am not the only one to wander this and I know that others looking are curious as well. The only way to learn is to talk to others that have been through the experience. Thanks, Dave. 8 kmwheel, Chicago1962, weight_no_longer and 5 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Catracks 865 Posted August 21, 2012 I was on here right after the first consult. I tend to research things to death so I read this board every day and also read three blogs from surgery day to present. I was pretty well informed by the time I had my surgery. I was even equipped with grocery lists and recipes. One thing I did learn from this board and real time support groups is that some people get surgery without knowing the first thing about it and some surgeons let their patients out into the world with virtually no guidance. Read everything you can get your hands on. 8 scaredoftheunknown, runner, Sharon's last chance and 5 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jennrus 176 Posted August 21, 2012 Never trust a fart is one of the biggest things no one talked about. 44 Sweeta, diedie, Izuri and 41 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Catracks 865 Posted August 21, 2012 Never trust a fart is one of the biggest things no one talked about. LOL - Totally gross! 2 libbylou4u and suepeeps reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LeaveItToSleever 80 Posted August 21, 2012 I didn't realize how badly it would affect my abdomen. I know the scars will heal, but I'm talking about what happens when they inflate you. Obviously, they blew me up like a balloon, but 3 weeks later my stomach is still a big, sloppy, defated mashmallow. My mid section has NEVER looked THIS bad. Is this what happens when you give birth? LOL I hope sit-ups will help me get it back. 1 Danilax reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Threetimesacharm 1,400 Posted August 21, 2012 I didn't realize how badly it would affect my abdomen. I know the scars will heal, but I'm talking about what happens when they inflate you. Obviously, they blew me up like a balloon, but 3 weeks later my stomach is still a big, sloppy, defated mashmallow. My mid section has NEVER looked THIS bad. Is this what happens when you give birth? LOL I hope sit-ups will help me get it back. Are you sure it is not you're weight loss that has contributed? You have lost an amazing amount of weight congratulations!! 1 mylifeinpink reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jennyblue111 32 Posted August 21, 2012 I am now the proud owner of 2 bottles of acid reducers & a bottle of stool softeners. Shopping for these things makes me feel totally geriatric @ 38. New experience. 12 Butterthebean, sarahmoni, Frza and 9 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LeaveItToSleever 80 Posted August 21, 2012 Are you sure it is not you're weight loss that has contributed? You have lost an amazing amount of weight congratulations!! Yes, I'm positive. I didn't have a big gut before surgery. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nyxa 159 Posted August 21, 2012 LOL Jenny.. well at least you don't have to go shopping for depends, too. also.. don't forget your friend.. Amazon. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gustavo52974 369 Posted August 21, 2012 Never trust a fart is one of the biggest things no one talked about. LOL - Totally gross! Gross, but true. And stool softener was essential in my case. I learned the hard way. I'll just say the words "bowling ball" and leave it to your imagination. 9 Mommagiraffe, Tammy310, Belinda and 6 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
amfw 18 Posted August 21, 2012 Hiccups hurt really bad. 6 justme360, lozzad, gabby899 and 3 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gustavo52974 369 Posted August 21, 2012 And you may sneeze when you're eating for what seems no good reason. This means you're full AND STOP EATING! 3 justmeandmysleeve, ereneeh and FDclerical reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DanaInNewOrleans 513 Posted August 21, 2012 I couldn't decide where to put this one so I figured that most of it's gonna come after surgery so I put it in post op. Feel free to move it if necessary. I was reading another thread and someone said these words and it made me think about what I have learned reading this board and was amazed at the responses I saw stating that they were not told such and such before hand. What are some things that you have learned after the fact?? The things you didn't find out until you were elbow deep into this journey... Let's hear them, the good, the bad, and the ugly. I know that I am not the only one to wander this and I know that others looking are curious as well. The only way to learn is to talk to others that have been through the experience. Thanks, Dave. This is such a great post!! I'm looking forward to all the responses!! Thanks Dave Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sassypants 674 Posted August 21, 2012 That your taste buds change! I was never told that after the op everythingggggggggggg will taste extra extra extra sweet! 13 Sheree, upwardfocusedgirl, rizabonita and 10 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
amfw 18 Posted August 21, 2012 That your taste buds change!I was never told that after the op everythingggggggggggg will taste extra extra extra sweet! I forgot about that. I can't tolerate sweet food any more. 2 Sheree and Territravel reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
