Fear Can Stop Us From Doing So Many Things?

[Suzannesh 376]

Hi Everyone,

Fear can stop us from doing so many things in our life. For many it just paralyzes them, and they can’t move forward. Are you like this? Every day that you allow fear to control you, it just steals another day of your life. It is time to take back your power. How many of you have been on the Roller Coaster of weight loss????—lose the weight to only go right back to eating how you used to eat before you lost the weight and then regain it all back plus more? I did that more times that I can count in my life, and I would beat myself up over it every time I did it. You are sitting there right now shaking your head “yes” because you have done the same thing too!

I thought long and hard before I had weight loss surgery. I spent 6 months asking questions from people on these boards, reading everything I could find to read about the different kinds of weight loss surgeries and the doctors who did it. I was going to be a self-pay because my insurance was NOT going to pay for it.

My greatest fear was not going to Mexicali, Mexico, once I made up my mind to who I wanted to do my surgery. My greatest fear like so many of you was what if I spend all this money for WLS and end right back on the Roller Coaster of lose the weight only to regain it back??? I am here to tell you I am living proof that having Weight Loss Surgery was the VERY best thing I have ever done for myself. I had a VGS aka “sleeve” surgery in Oct 2008; 4 years ago and lost 105 pounds and have kept it off. Weight Loss Surgery is NOT a miracle cure, I had to work at it and I also exercise too. But, it is my tool to allow me to be successful and to maintain my weight forever.

You too can do the very same thing I have done by having WLS. You have to make a lifestyle change when it comes to eating. I never consider myself on a diet. I also NEVER feel deprived when it comes to eating. I have just changed by eat small amounts of food and making good food choices. I eat healthy food, but I also eat yummy foods. Do I have desert? Sure I do, but not every day, and when I do, I eat a very small amount of it. I have also learned to cook differently, and to convert some of my favorite foods into Low Carb and healthy recipes.

NEVER give up on your dream of becoming the person you want to be! Anything is possible if you want it bad enough. Stop slowly killing yourself with that fork and do something about your weight. Make today the day that you promise yourself that things are going to change. I am always out here if you have any questions or need help. You can also send me an E-mail to: Suzannesh@aol.com

I did go to Dr. Aceves for my surgery, and he was my choice because I felt he was the very best doctor I could have do my surgery, after all my research. I highly recommend him. During my research, his name was the name that ALWAYS kept coming back as the best doctor there was for me.

I know how very clean the hospital is and the entire staff are fabulous. They are they to make sure that everything is great and they want you to have a wonderful experience. You will think WOW, I never received care like this in the USA.

Hugs and do not allow this fear to control you!

Suzanne

Sleeved 10/21/2008

Lost 105 pounds

[Mzluvee 41]

That is all so true, thank you for sharing that insight. I have been on this battle my entire life seems like and struggling with the WLS idea for 5 years now. I am finally at a place where enough is enough and this gal is ready for a change a change that is not just in my outside but internally.

[Suzannesh 376]

That is all so true, thank you for sharing that insight. I have been on this battle my entire life seems like and struggling with the WLS idea for 5 years now. I am finally at a place where enough is enough and this gal is ready for a change a change that is not just in my outside but internally.

Hi,

Cogratulations to you for making the choice to save your own life. You will never have a regret. Hold on to your hat, you entire world is going to change and all for the better. I am always out here as you start the process and need support and have questions. Just send me a note any time you need.

Hugs,

Suzanne

[Mzluvee 41]

Hi,

Cogratulations to you for making the choice to save your own life. You will never have a regret. Hold on to your hat, you entire world is going to change and all for the better. I am always out here as you start the process and need support and have questions. Just send me a note any time you need.

Hugs,

Suzanne

Aww....Thanks, it is always good to have the support. i appreciate all the support I get, especially on this site!

[Suzannesh 376]

Hi Everyone,

Fear is awful and I know it isn't always easy. I just want you to know that YOU can overcome it and do the right things for yourself. :wub:

I am always here every step of the way for you. I have talked on the phone for many hours talking to people and answering all their questions. I have been in your shoes and know what it feels like.

I always promised myself that if I could help other people I was going to do it.

If you don't want to ask me questions on here send me a private E-mail. You can send it to Suzannesh@aol.com

Hugs,

Suzanne

[darlamay 0]

I really needed to hear those words. I am scheduled for surgery August 13 and I'm

Doubting whether or not I'm doing the right thing.

[SylviaMom 83]

Suzanne, your messages are so inspiring. Thank you for being such a wonderful angel of hope and goodwill.