Final Post

[NDN_RN 527]

I am new here. Actively post...a lot, but new. I have seen a few instances where poster may become preachy, sanctimonious and selfriteous. (sp?) and then people in defensivenes may become downright mean . But for the most part, posters are informative, understanding and supportive. Take the good and throw out the bad, no need to throw the baby out with the bathwater. I am not yet sleeved, i look to these boards for information to prepare for what will be the next big thing in my life. It helps me pass the time as I obsess over whether or not my insurance approves, once I finish the requirements. I will need the support of these boards once I am sleeved, to get me through the rough Patches, the stalls and the food mourning. I am amazed at what I have gleaned from these boards. i have even taught my NUT a thing or two about the high Protein foods and shakes out there. My ultimate hope, once I get sleeved and begin my journey is to meet local people on these boards, maybe have a non food get together, share our success and our glitches in person. I'm sure they are out there, I mean, every woman in Fairfield County CT is skinny, it cant be all "natural", can it? LOL! Don't let the meanies get you down, and hang in there. There are plenty of us here to support you and cheer you on...and once in a while...scold you to prevent you from hurting yourself.

[rdoactv 218]

Rarely do I see negativity here. Occasionally, yes. But with so many ppl from all walks of life, not every persons way of responding will appeal to every individual. Now,I have seen others step in when one member is treating or responding in a blatantly rude or disrespectful fashion, I am one of those who will say " hey, kinda uncalled for. We're here for eachother" and if I respond unduly to someone, I would hope someone would "tap" me on the shoulder and help me see my folly. Perhaps Ive had a bad day, or my hormones are raging lol.I take what each person offers with gratitude and respect and decide which advice is best for me. But I appreciate all well meaning responses, and consider the lack of inflection in a post.I consider these ppl my "friends" and "sleeve family" and am grateful for them. Im not even sleeved yet, but have learned so much here. Im sorry you didn't have the same experience. But I wish you the best and good luck in your journey.