So The Hubby Likes An Ample Rear, What If I Lose It All?

[petite-size-me! 70]

My first thought was weight bearing exercise! Squats and lunges!! A nice round muscular bum is a sight to see!!

Neither exercise is necessarily fun, but the deeper the squat or lunge and the better the burn the more you picture that round firm ass you wanna have!

[Finding MeMe 204]

I do lots of lunges, squats and spin classes to help keep mine firm. At 45 I have no issues whatsoever it is a lot smaller and very firm after my wt. loss.

[LeaveItToSleever 80]

Ok, I know this is a bit much for a question and a little embarassing but it's something that I do think about. My Hubby does likes an ample bottom...lol. I kind of wonder exactly how much of it I will lose. Don't get me wrong I don't mind losing the majority of it, but I also don't want to be completely flat. So I guess I do have a little bit of curosity about that?!?!?!

I'm taking your question seriously. If you're curious what your husband will think / do, you have to ask him.

If there's any chance that he wouldn't support his spouse having health improving and potentially life-saving surgery, that needs to be discussed, pronto.

[Mzluvee 41]

I'm taking your question seriously. If you're curious what your husband will think / do' date=' you have to ask him.

If there's any chance that he wouldn't support his spouse having health improving and potentially life-saving surgery, that needs to be discussed, pronto.[/quote']

Well I have asked, but he says don't worry that he will be just as happy when I am smaller, as he loves me regardless. Maybe I am putting to much on it, but it is something I think about.

[NDN_RN 527]

I have the same problem. My husband loves my curves and although very supportive he gets this forlorned look and asks, "are you sure you want to do this" i remind him my rear is disproportionately larger than the rest of my plus sized body (always hated thet) so i assume it will be larger than the rest of my body as I reduce. Exercise to keep it bouncy and firm!

[O.T.R. sleever 3,386]

I will say this from a mans point of view, I love a woman with a big @$$. But, shape trumps size any day of the week, I'd much rather my woman have a smaller butt that is firm & round than a big one that is out of shape.

Don't get me wrong, a big, firm onion booty is a thing of beauty. But in reality, Beyonce & J-Lo are just unattainable.