phillygirl8133 74 Posted July 18, 2012 How long do u have to wait to get some lol my husband is going nuts n it's only been a wk since we last had sex I forgot to ask my doctor so I figured I ask here lol 1 Leslie Hudson-Couch reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
StormWarning 194 Posted July 18, 2012 I think every doctor is different. I have asked my doctor and he also has a youtube video about it, but he says as soon as we feel comfortable in doing so. But again I know all doctors are different. 1 cissiesue reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Downtown Pony 7 Posted July 18, 2012 How long do u have to wait to get some lol my husband is going nuts n it's only been a wk since we last had sex I forgot to ask my doctor so I figured I ask here lol Two days after surgery. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cissiesue 119 Posted July 18, 2012 As soon as you're comfortable. Your surgery wasnt in the "affected area" 1 Leslie Hudson-Couch reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PdxMan 4,292 Posted July 18, 2012 4 days here. No problems. Just no acrobatics and you'll be fine. 1 Tia Noel reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dooter 1,457 Posted July 18, 2012 How long do u have to wait to get some lol my husband is going nuts n it's only been a wk since we last had sex I forgot to ask my doctor so I figured I ask here lol My doc said two weeks, and only if you're comfortable. The guys here that have said a smaller amount of time have to remember, they are "top," (ok, typically..) and therefore not as much pressure on the belly! 1 Leslie Hudson-Couch reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
philosophyPhD25 4 Posted July 18, 2012 3 days , good to go ! DR.MEBARAK PhD Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
StormWarning 194 Posted July 18, 2012 I kinda disagree about the guys part. I would imagine a guy would feel worse pain/discomfort/pinching compared to a woman. After all the guys are the ones who have to use abdominal muscles constantly for the thrusting. Prob too vague on the picture, but isn't that the truth? I think depending on who is having the surgery male/female you work around positions. However despite how successful you are on finding a position that will work for both parties, a woman may feel some discomfort during an orgasm as her abdominal muscles may contract. Again not anything that would prevent having sex, but is why they say "When you feel comfortable in doing so" 1 Leslie Hudson-Couch reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PdxMan 4,292 Posted July 18, 2012 My doc said two weeks, and only if you're comfortable. The guys here that have said a smaller amount of time have to remember, they are "top," (ok, typically..) and therefore not as much pressure on the belly! Who's doing most of the moving? My belly was moving ... for sure. Ever hear of scissors? Yup ... 2 StormWarning and Lissa reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Star1221 270 Posted July 18, 2012 2 days here. I initiated. Just held my stomach to stop the jiggle lol. Now in the moment when your stomach tenses, you can't stop that. But it Just feels like you were sore from working out. After a few times it wasn't as bad. If you feel ready, start slow and enjoy 1 Leslie Hudson-Couch reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
phillygirl8133 74 Posted July 18, 2012 Good to know lol I jut didn't want him to mess up my stitches so I guess I'll try it I know he will be happy and il make sure I take my pain medicine cause my incision is hurtin with movements Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
petite-size-me! 70 Posted July 18, 2012 Lucky partners! I'm 3 weeks out and not on the radar! If not for the hernia repairs maybe, but I feel like after my caesarean! 1 justmeandmysleeve reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
StormWarning 194 Posted July 18, 2012 Not trying to sound degrading here but there are tons if positions available but after all the previous abdominal surgeries I found that hands and knees with a pillow propped under tummy helps. Able to control tummy movements better than laying on back and on top positions can be stressful cause you forget about having surgery and eventually your hips move with motions which pulls on abdominal muscles. Sent from my iPhone using VST Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
phillygirl8133 74 Posted July 19, 2012 Not trying to sound degrading here but there are tons if positions available but after all the previous abdominal surgeries I found that hands and knees with a pillow propped under tummy helps. Able to control tummy movements better than laying on back and on top positions can be stressful cause you forget about having surgery and eventually your hips move with motions which pulls on abdominal muscles. Sent from my iPhone using VST Lmao just what I had in mind ha ha 1 StormWarning reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
melbelinc 33 Posted July 19, 2012 My surgeon actually brought this up at my one week. He said whenever just be careful doing anything that uses your abs. He said to 'try a different position if you need to". So go ahead and do it. Just listen to your body. Burn some calories! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites