Dad Almost Died From Sleeve

[SleeveNoob 95]

Your dad is a very strong person to have gone through that and come out on the other side still standing. I'm sure it was beyond difficult. I'm so glad to hear that he's doing better now. I bet he can't wait to start some soft foods! =)

thank you very much

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[peacequeen 434]

I'm so glad to hear your dad is recovering from such a terrible ordeal. Bless his heart he really went through alot. I'm sure you are so relieved! Congrats on his weight loss,,but so sorry he had to go through what he did to shed that many pounds.

[LT1002 138]

They did do a swallow test but the two leaks were up by his asophogus (sp) and they were pin hole from the stapler slipping. They did not know he had a leak until third day in hospital. He ran fever and had left shoulder pain since the first night....they really should have figured out it was a leak way sooner.

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This could be the lawyer in me talking, but stapler slipping sounds like either human error or equipment failure. After all your dad went through, have you spoken to a med-mal attorney about a possible claim? I'm sure your dad's life was turned upside-down - he's only 51 - and he should be compensated for this.

[former_vbg 198]

So, I'm curious with as much weight as he has lost, does he still need to lose anymore? I'm not sure if it's in this thread somewhere if you posted what his starting weight was.

[Butterthebean 8,146]

I just stumbled upon this thread and I am amazed. I'm real glad your father is doing better and I hope it helps others not to give up hope if you have complications in the beginning. Having a good Doctor who will work hard for you is priceless as well. It's also commendable that you did not let your father's complications deter you from having the surgery. As you and others have stated, not having the surgery can have much greater risks. Sounds like your recovery is going flawlessly.

Keep us updated on your father's progress.

[SleeveNoob 95]

This could be the lawyer in me talking' date=' but stapler slipping sounds like either human error or equipment failure. After all your dad went through, have you spoken to a med-mal attorney about a possible claim? I'm sure your dad's life was turned upside-down - he's only 51 - and he should be compensated for this.[/quote']

My dad has thought about it but his surgeon has been amazing. How many surgeons call you 2-3 times a day to see how you are doing we have his cell and text him all the time with our silly questions. a group of amazing doctors came together for my dad they even flew pig cells in to help patch the holes from another country. he has developed a really strong relationship with his surgeon. If it were me I wouldn't care what type of relationship I had with him I would get compensated no matter what. I feel my dad should have gone to a more experienced surgeon. I was his 5th sleeve. He was doing the band and bypass up until October last year. But when I saw how he took care of my dad and how he genuinely cared I wouldn't have let anyone else do my sleeve

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[SleeveNoob 95]

So' date=' I'm curious with as much weight as he has lost, does he still need to lose anymore? I'm not sure if it's in this thread somewhere if you posted what his starting weight was.[/quote']

He started at 370 and is now 247 his goal weight is 200 so not that much farther

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[SleeveNoob 95]

I'm so glad to hear your dad is recovering from such a terrible ordeal. Bless his heart he really went through alot. I'm sure you are so relieved! Congrats on his weight loss' date=',but so sorry he had to go through what he did to shed that many pounds.[/quote']

Thank you. He is a very strong person and has come a long way

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[kysia81 11]

I had issues after.

Sleeved may 15th and been hospital for 6 weeks and now have ulcerative. Colitis and it's not nice, but I would do it again.

I hope your dad has a good recovery.

I started at 130kg and now at 103.4 kg and had a month stall

[Sleeved&Hopeful 182]

You and your Dad sound awesome! Yes, your Dad took a risk but you know what? We all did! Perhaps he should have gone to a more experienced surgeon but your Dad for some reason trusted his surgeon. Looks like that was a good thing. Some surgeons act like a complication is not their fault and walk away but this surgeon did something about it!! Almost any surgeon doing sleeves is bound to eventually have a leak. I think you choosing this surgeon after what happened to your Dad was a strong show of faith. I guess seeing him take good care of your Dad was a testament. All surgeons have to be newbies just like we have to be forum newbies. Someone has to let them operate to learn. Someone had to be every doctor's first or tenth or twentieth patient. And I'm really glad those people were there! Otherwise we wouldn't have bariatric surgeons out there gaining experience and getting better! Having faith in your surgeon is important. I'm glad you had enough.

And I'm SOOOOO glad your Dad is ok!

[his2my2our4 120]

Wow what a scary road for him...and for you too I'm sure!! I'm so glad to hear that both of you are doing well! Well wishes and prayers that his recovery continues to go well!

[sazzygirl 33]

First off hope yr dad is better. And the doctors are close because of a thing called a law suit . My dr wouldn't listen after numerous complaints of vomiting and not feeling good come to find out after a trip to the ER my gallbladder was so infected and full of stones it actually was holding my liver up. Switched to my dr partner who is much better bed side manner

[lml32937 65]

I'm sorry to hear about your dad and unfortunately he had to go through that experience. However it should be sad way early on to all smoker's and drinkers that you really dont know the unreparable damage that can be done internally to what you are doing to yourself. Being in the medical field I see this all the time- people saying they quit or not telling us they are a smoker and a minor procedure can turn into a major one real quick.

Hopefully you both have learned from this and perhaps can turn it around by going to support groups and encouraging EVERYONE you know to stop the pre op habits soon enough to minimize the risk- the risk will always be there but you can decrease it...

ps thanks for sharing such a personal story-

[SleeveNoob 95]

You and your Dad sound awesome! Yes' date=' your Dad took a risk but you know what? We all did! Perhaps he should have gone to a more experienced surgeon but your Dad for some reason trusted his surgeon. Looks like that was a good thing. Some surgeons act like a complication is not their fault and walk away but this surgeon did something about it!! Almost any surgeon doing sleeves is bound to eventually have a leak. I think you choosing this surgeon after what happened to your Dad was a strong show of faith. I guess seeing him take good care of your Dad was a testament. All surgeons have to be newbies just like we have to be forum newbies. Someone has to let them operate to learn. Someone had to be every doctor's first or tenth or twentieth patient. And I'm really glad those people were there! Otherwise we wouldn't have bariatric surgeons out there gaining experience and getting better! Having faith in your surgeon is important. I'm glad you had enough.

And I'm SOOOOO glad your Dad is ok![/quote']

Thank you so much and you are right I had a lot of faith in him and everything with me came out as planned.

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[SleeveNoob 95]

I'm sorry to hear about your dad and unfortunately he had to go through that experience. However it should be sad way early on to all smoker's and drinkers that you really dont know the unreparable damage that can be done internally to what you are doing to yourself. Being in the medical field I see this all the time- people saying they quit or not telling us they are a smoker and a minor procedure can turn into a major one real quick.

Hopefully you both have learned from this and perhaps can turn it around by going to support groups and encouraging EVERYONE you know to stop the pre op habits soon enough to minimize the risk- the risk will always be there but you can decrease it...

ps thanks for sharing such a personal story-

Yes smoking is something that people need to take seriously...its hard and even harder not being able to eat...first think a smoker does when they can't smoke is eat lol worst choice I ever made in life was smoking.

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