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My frist post-op Dr. Visit today I started at 262.2 surgery day on the 25 of jun I was 246

Now I'm 240 I was happy!!! I need all the support. I can get ....I though that was ok I wanted it to

Be more... But my husband was with me for the frist time I have never let him know how much I weigh... he said U have a long way to go ... That made me fill worse in side ... And I'm still on a full liquid he Dr. If it can go though a straw u can have it ....

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Dr. Said if it can go though a straw u can have it ...

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My frist post-op Dr. Visit today I started at 262.2 surgery day on the 25 of jun I was 246

Now I'm 240 I was happy!!! I need all the support. I can get ....I though that was ok I wanted it to

Be more... But my husband was with me for the frist time I have never let him know how much I weigh... he said U have a long way to go ... That made me fill worse in side ... And I'm still on a full liquid he Dr. If it can go though a straw u can have it ....

Congrats I think that is an awesome loss. Don't let the hubby's comment bring you down.

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Try not to let the negative comments get to you. I know it will be hard but I was sleeved on Monday and the road to success will be faster than he thinks. We have the right tool to get us to our desired destination! LOL!

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I told my husband how much I weighed last week. He looked stunned. He said he thought I weighed about what hedoes but I started about 80 lbs more than him now Im about 20 more than him. He doesnt offer encouragment or compliments. I think it shows how weak a man is. Me and you both are so strong to have taken charge of our lives ans body. For us to let themknow how much we weigh is only because we are confident we will lose it. Its almost like look at me and watch what im going to do ! Dont let him get you down. You alredy know you are beautiful inside and working on becoming the same outside playing a game you cant lose !!

Sit back and smile at him knowing you already won and dont need his approval. This is for you and not him.

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I agree! Don't let the hubby get you down! I haven't told my husband what I weigh! I've had a couple of procedures to have lumps removed from my breasts. Each time they came in before the procedure, I told them they could tell my husband anything they wanted..... But not my weight! I don't know how much my husband thinks that I weigh. He is 5'10 and about 185! I have no intention of telling him what I weigh even when I lose weight! Lol

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I should of done the same . I knew better... I have never told him till now ... I won't tell anything about my wt. no more but it kind of to late now but I have support on here.I like this site and thank u all ... I'm on my fitness pal my name is tamara1965 so anyone can be my friend on there for the support I would love it have the support ..thanks ......

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