If You're Worried About Telling People....

[BKMama 179]

...they may just surprise you! I felt pretty strongly about not telling much of anyone outside of my very closest friends and immediate family. As I began to go through the classes and jump through the various hoops, the net was cast wider and wider. I didn't exactly rent a billboard, but I definitely told way more people than I intended. I'm still pre-op, so basically, I just sent an email letting them know I'm having surgery, when it is, and simply asked for their prayers and support during the process.

The response has been OVERWHELMINGLY positive. They've all seen me struggle while actively trying to lose weight. Everyone is happy for me and offering all sorts of support. So, yeah, there are plenty of ignorant people who will have ridiculously dumb things to say about our decision but I'm willing to bet that there will be more that will be in your corner and waiting to help and support you in any way they can.

I'm not trying to convince anyone to do anything they don't want. I just know that it was a bit stressful for me to think of all of the judgement and possibly not having the support of those around me. Basically, I was worried for nothing! Just wanted to share....

[mrsski21 44]

I have told everyone! My support is amazing!! I work in a dr.'s office (ortho) and my dr.'s have sent me text came to the hospital to see me. I did not want anyone thinking I was sick or was dying. If I ever get negative feedback then I don't need that person. My dad actually told me he thought I should just diet more....i put him in his place saying he is very obese as well. I love that my friends, neighbors, co-workers, my patients and family know. I think it's too much on people's shoulders trying to figure out what to tell people! It is not normal to lose 8 lbs a week unless you have had surgery. I am down 8 lbs and I am only 6 days out. I had to fill out a form at work this AM and everyone was complimenting me on how great I look an they could tell I lost already! What a HUGE confidence builder that was! Again just my experience so it is up to everyone, but I am so happy with my choice!

[SkinnierDreams 1]

Thanks for sharing. I have been struggling with this very topic myself and just started Day One of my 2 week preop diet. The idea of just hiding doesn't make much sense if I'm starting a healthier lifestyle.