Self Esteem Issues?

liberty2003 · August 31, 2006

Hey Everyone...

I have to say that all of my life i have had little or no self esteem, I had a bad childhood etc..And being FAT all my life didn't help much.

I am very proud of my weight loss so far..and i had noticed for a while my self esteem was moving up..Not i've pretty much hit rock bottom again..

Has anyone felt this way? Any ways of improving it?

Thanks,

~Kristen

La_madam · August 31, 2006

Go shopping, buy yourself something pretty. Get your nails and toes done. I know for me when I was feeling blue I would go shop and shop in the "normal " size department, no longer in the "plus " size department, that always made me feel better. Also instead of focusing only on what the numbers on the scale say and how many pounds you have lost, sit down a write a list of all of the good things in your life that have changed since your band and the 77lbs lost, for example, more enegry, no aches and pains in your feet or back, more people notice me and comment me on my weight loss, more social etc..you get my drift. Do not let the scale dictate your success with your band NSV"s are just as important. Hang in there. :huggie:

CCBSTX · August 31, 2006

Start treating yourself well. Do something special that you don't normally do. Get a great haircut! I've noticed your signature says that you lost 77 pounds the first year..That is quite an accomplishment. Alot of times, we don't feel that we are worth it. Whether it's something we have been told and then started to say (internally) to ourselves.

Know that it took great courage to get banded in the first place. Somewhere, deep inside, you felt that you were worth. Of course, you are going to have self-doubt. Everybody does, at one time or another. Get as much support as you can. Stay around folks that are positive and helpful in your Quest for self-confidence.

Take care, Shawn