Jumping On The Vsg Train

[Slenderella 153]

Well, it looks like I'm about to jump on the VSG train. I'm so nervous and excited I could puke!

I've been lurking and learning for several months and now that I've finally made the decision to move forward with surgery, I decided it was time to get serious about finding a support group.

For most of my life I was the the curvy girl that was straddling the line of obesity, at times I was just overweight, but then something changed...I officially became obese. I will never forget the day I was reviewing some of my medical records and my doctors noted that I was OBESE!!! I'm not just talking about one doctor, several different doctors noted that in my records. ;( The most crushing moment came last summer when I went to go get a pedicure. I had on a cute sundress, I plopped my obese self down for a good foot rub, and the girl rubbing said feet asked me if I was pregnant! I was mortified and heartbroken and I felt disgusting and so embarrassed. Was she talking to ME?!?!

I've decided it time to do something for me. I've spent the last 23 years devoting my time and energy to being the best wife I can be and raising 2 wonderful young men, now it's time to be the best me I can be. Now that my boys are grown I have time to focus on my needs. Over the last few months I've been trying to figure out what my needs are, and I've learned:

I need to be healthy

I need to feel better-in side and out

I need to feel less self-concious

I need to not see an obese person when I look in the mirror

I need to feel attractive to my husband

I need to take a picture with my family and not hate what I see

I need to exercise and be active

I need Portion Control

I need to make healthy eating a priority

I need to walk into a clothing store and know I can find something that fits

I need to live long and active life so I can watch my kids' life unfold

I need to never again be asked if I'm pregnant

I need to never see the word obese in my medical records again

I need to not be in pain every day of my life

I need a second chance to get it right

As I have researched and pondered surgery, I have wondered if I'm making the right choice. After seeing my needs in black and white, and finally exposing myself to this wonderful community, I know this is the right choice for me. My surgery date can't get here soon enough!

[sdb1147 54]

Might I suggest you change "need" to "WILL"? Like the Cable-guy says, "Git 'er done"!

[Pinky Green 260]

I remember the first time a doctor wrote Obese on my chart and I wasn't obese at the time. I was overweight. I am 5'0" and I was 142. I knew I was overweight but I was shocked that the Dr. wrote that I was obese. According to the BMI calculator (http://bmicalc.org/bmi-calculator-for-women) - I will stop being obese and become overweight when I get to 153 lbs. Since I weigh 238 now that won't be my first goal, but that is going to be a goal somewhere down the line. I guess my first goal will be to lose 5% of my weight - 12 lbs. Maybe I can do that before I start the liquid diet 2 weeks before surgery.

[deekaspor 89]

You will be so happy with your decision. I have been sleeved for 2 months now and LOVE it. I have more energy to do the things I want to do. Of course that took a month, the first few weeks I was so tired. It is a lot of work so don't think it will be an easy ride, however very worth it. I am so excited for you!!

[thinmymind 107]

You will love it! I am only a week and half post op, so still healing, but I can tell this is finally what is going to get me to my goals. Welcome to this great community.

[ProudGrammy 8,322]

I've decided its time to do something for me.

Slenderlla

glad you realized how important you, yourself, and i am

after seeing all your "needs in black and white"

the list could have been written by anyone of us sleevers.

a saying from Star Wars (per my DH)

Do or Do Not - There is no Try

good luck

kathy

[SML1997 308]

Well, it looks like I'm about to jump on the VSG train. I'm so nervous and excited I could puke!

I've been lurking and learning for several months and now that I've finally made the decision to move forward with surgery, I decided it was time to get serious about finding a support group.

For most of my life I was the the curvy girl that was straddling the line of obesity, at times I was just overweight, but then something changed...I officially became obese. I will never forget the day I was reviewing some of my medical records and my doctors noted that I was OBESE!!! I'm not just talking about one doctor, several different doctors noted that in my records. ;( The most crushing moment came last summer when I went to go get a pedicure. I had on a cute sundress, I plopped my obese self down for a good foot rub, and the girl rubbing said feet asked me if I was pregnant! I was mortified and heartbroken and I felt disgusting and so embarrassed. Was she talking to ME?!?!

I've decided it time to do something for me. I've spent the last 23 years devoting my time and energy to being the best wife I can be and raising 2 wonderful young men, now it's time to be the best me I can be. Now that my boys are grown I have time to focus on my needs. Over the last few months I've been trying to figure out what my needs are, and I've learned:

I need to be healthy

I need to feel better-in side and out

I need to feel less self-concious

I need to not see an obese person when I look in the mirror

I need to feel attractive to my husband

I need to take a picture with my family and not hate what I see

I need to exercise and be active

I need Portion Control

I need to make healthy eating a priority

I need to walk into a clothing store and know I can find something that fits

I need to live long and active life so I can watch my kids' life unfold

I need to never again be asked if I'm pregnant

I need to never see the word obese in my medical records again

I need to not be in pain every day of my life

I need a second chance to get it right

As I have researched and pondered surgery, I have wondered if I'm making the right choice. After seeing my needs in black and white, and finally exposing myself to this wonderful community, I know this is the right choice for me. My surgery date can't get here soon enough!

I agree whole-heartedly!!! Very eloquent in the expression of your needs. I can't wait until I get sleeved as well. The great thing is that journey has started and there's a great destination ahead. Good luck to you in your journey.

By the way... I'm liking the name... "Slenderella." Very Clever!

[Lissa 2,631]

Congrats on making a great decision for yourself!! I love the list and agree that you should change it to WILL instead of need. You WILL accomplish all of those goals because you ARE determined to meet them.

[big guy 11]

You will love it. Stick to low carb and sugar after. I had mine done on Arpril 12th. Today is June 24th. I started at 305 and now I'm 234. 71 pounds gone in 73 days! Faster than normal folks, but I work out everyday for 2 hours.

[allnewme 262]

Slenerella,

You sound like me in so many ways. I have my surgery date set for Aug.2 and it just cannot get here quickly enough for me.

I wish you all the best as you walk the path to a new you! Just take it one step at a time.

[Slenderella 153]

Thanks for the warm welcome, everyone! It's now official...my surgery is scheduled for August 1. So good to have a date and know that my needs will turn into accomplishments very soon.

[Slenderella 153]

Slenerella,

You sound like me in so many ways. I have my surgery date set for Aug.2 and it just cannot get here quickly enough for me.

I wish you all the best as you walk the path to a new you! Just take it one step at a time.

Ohh, we are one day apart for our surgery dates!! It's going to be great having someone to walk down that path with. I love that I am already encouraged. Good luck to you, too!

[allnewme 262]

Slenderella,

I am always around for support if you need or want some. My niece is also having VSG 9 days before me so we can add her in the group of happy losers too

I get more excited every day! Have a great week this week.... Each day gets us one day closer to our surgery day!! Whoo-Hoo!

[tiffany bowen 5]

Good luck to you!! I'm glad you are doing something for you!!!