female only First Time After Surgery

[karen74 27]

Ok. Here is a little of my back story. I am recently divorced and started dating my fitness trainer about three months ago. (Who would have thought that this model looking guy would fall for the fat chick) anyway... our sex life was amazing before the surgery. Now i am 11 days post op and well... last night we just couldn't help our selves but took it really slow. This morning i feel as horrible as i did the day after surgery. Should i be worried?

[Lissa 2,631]

It depends. Without being too graphic, did you do any major calisthenics? Really slow sounds like it was also pretty gentle and you shouldn't be experiencing pain. Maybe you worked your tummy muscles too hard and they are reacting today. If you have a fever, more pain, or big problems eating, then I'd call the doctor. Otherwise, you probably just need some rest for those sore muscles.

Get ready, the libido kicks into high gear really quickly! I hope your guy is in great shape. He's going to need it to keep up with your hormones!!

[mylifeinpink 349]

I can tell you from experience~ if you really "enjOyed" it, you will be sore. You waited way longer than I did, and I did "enjOy" it, and my tummy felt like hell the next day!

Heating pad, that's what helped me out~

<3

[karen74 27]

Ahhhhh... yep... there was a very big O. That makes sense. Thanks.