sexysleever 93 Posted June 8, 2012 My husband and I are both getting sleeved..... Mine is in July and his is in August.... Are there any couples out there that have been sleeved together?....... Was is a struggle???? 1 onikatn reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mrsjones075 40 Posted June 8, 2012 My hubby wants to see how I do before he decides to get sleeved. I haven't gotten my date yet, but I'm interested in hearing what others have to say. Thanks for posting this topic. 1 justmeandmysleeve reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Darla5060 68 Posted June 8, 2012 Hi! I was sleeved in February, and my hubby will be sleeved in early August...I think it will be so much easier when he can eat the way I eat...poor guy, I almost never cook anything other than fish and chicken! He's a good sport, though. I'm really looking forward to having him sleeved, too! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DuranFan1969 119 Posted June 8, 2012 I'm the guinea pig apparently since I'm having my surgery next week, and he's waiting to see how I do. Men ... such wussies Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
justmeandmysleeve 91 Posted June 8, 2012 This is a hilarious thread! My husband is just like all of yours in that he wants to see how I do first. Us women have to do it all I am actually excited to show him that it can be done. I get sleeved July 19th!!! Good luck Ladies! 1 Failure reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sexysleever 93 Posted June 8, 2012 Yeah my husband also wants me to go first to see how the pain is lol..... I think he only wants the sleeve because he don't wanna be big alone :-) 1 justmeandmysleeve reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
justmeandmysleeve 91 Posted June 8, 2012 Yeah my husband also wants me to go first to see how the pain is lol..... I think he only wants the sleeve because he don't wanna be big alone :-) That is funny because my husband keeps asking if I am going to get skinny and leave him. I assured him that my focus is to be healthy NOT skinny. To be honest I've never been skinny and I don't think it's my natural state. Good luck! Convincing the husband also Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DadTo2 152 Posted June 8, 2012 My wife and I are one of those couples. She had her's May 15th and mine is June 19th. She wanted to go first and I was okay with that. I'm currently in my pre-op diet and to be very honest, it is so much easier as we have both gone through this together. We both know what we need, and shopping is much easier for our meals. So far it hasn't been a struggle at all! Good luck to both of you! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JDHenin 165 Posted June 8, 2012 Yes! My hubby and I decided we would do this together. We have a 6 yr old so we didnt wanna do it exactly the same time. Mine was April 9 and my hobo by was April 30. We are both doing amazing and it's so awesome to have eachother as support since we both know what the other is going thru! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JDHenin 165 Posted June 8, 2012 Lol @ hobo! I meant hubby. 1 thinmymind reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nmg4unj5 2 Posted June 9, 2012 My hubby is 6/13 and I'm scheduled for 6/20, we have had a great journey together thus far Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
M2G 1,836 Posted June 10, 2012 Hubby and I are both sleeved as well! I went first because I wanted WLS and he wasn't planning on it. About 3-4 months into my 6 month insurance hoop-jumping, he had a change of heart and started his own journey. I will say that even though the men tend to lose faster, I've still lost more than he has. I'm 19 months post-op and he is 15 months post-op, I've lost about -100 and he's lost about -70. So we both still have work to do, but it has been great that we did this together. We share a meal at times if the mood strikes, otherwise we have leftovers. Best thing we ever did for our health!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kenbr14 12 Posted June 10, 2012 My wife had the band 10 years ago but back then I didn't need the surgery. When it came time for me to choose I went with the sleeve after seeing all the problems she's had with the band. But now she sees how successfull I was she wants the sleeve but dosent weigh enough for insurance to pay for it!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
aerie74 9 Posted December 27, 2012 I get sleeved on 1-16 and my hubby is on 2-6. We decided to do this together but we both have very different journeys. I am looking forward to hearing about other couples journeys! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bakawaka 59 Posted December 27, 2012 My wife had the band 10 years ago but back then I didn't need the surgery. When it came time for me to choose I went with the sleeve after seeing all the problems she's had with the band. But now she sees how successfull I was she wants the sleeve but dosent weigh enough for insurance to pay for it!! I went self pay for gastric bypass - it might be worth considering self pay Share this post Link to post Share on other sites